Who else feels there relationship?

Question

is falling apart. I think im to clingy I think i put too much effort into it. I dont try hard its just natural for me to be that way

Answer 1

thats the right way to be if you really care about someone. I'm a guy and I'm that way too haha - but know that if your partner isnt putting the same into it as you are you need to put pressure on them, because people like us not only need to show the other how much we care, but also recieve affection too, and without that we feel like everythings falling apart.

The only way to deal with it is confrontation - say tht you feel negected and such, and if they cant handle that, then your with the wrong person.

Answer 2

Cherry you sound very self aware so know what you need to do in order for your relationship to improve and keep it from falling apart. Guess it all depends on how much you want to succeed in this relationship whether or not you stop being so clingy.

Answer 3

It's hard sometimes...lol..you can't think that you are the only one to keep things together...take a "breather" relax, if you have to struggle at keeping something together...like plugging the holes in a dike...you are working too hard..and someone else ins't..or, you are thinking wrong about something..tell you what..let loose...and see what you think you are "holding together" really needs held! some things are "self-supporting" they stand on their own..and them, after you see this, you can stress-less, and relax more, and begin to enjoy things too...but, if it falls apart...it ain't worth having yourself fall apart before it does...you take care of you...lol...

Answer 4

I know what you mean, im the exact same way, and it feels like my relationship is just about done. . . I really hope im wrong, I love this girl sooooooo much.