can anybody help with a dream?

Question

I had a dream last night that was kinda scary?
In real life I met this guy named Bill, we dont really talk to much at the moment, just flirt a lot, he comes into where I work for lunch, and drops stuff, one day he said He gets really nervouse around me, then I started dropping stuff. any way I had this dream last night where we are inside this house and he kisses me. I have all the doors locked but all of a sudden something or somebody really horrible is trying to get in. I start rechecking the doors and windows to try and keep it out but I felt really terrified. can anybody help me with what this dream means? Thanks.

and please dont tell me to put this in a different section, I did, just want different opinions.

My fiance died two years ago almost 3 years ago in a accident. that may be the fear.

No, Bill is not married, or seeing anybody. not seriose anyway, just a fling now and then from what my boss says.

thanks tequila

Answer 1

You are scared of branching out into new areas of development in your life. You are attracted to the possibilities of bringing out a side of yourself that you never concentrated on before, but you are afraid of the potential vulnerabilities you might expose yourself to by opening up your life that way.

Answer 2

Hi Cindy! If you want the best answer, ask your spirit guide. Do you know how to get in touch with her/him? As far as my thoughts are on this goes it is this: You have been seriously hurt in the past (which you already said). You have a wall up around you right now and are protecting yourself from that hurt again. Cindy, this is only natural. Just realize that you can NOT go into a relationship (a true one) IF you are not willing to take the risk. Yes, you have to be willing to let that wall down and allow someone inside. That way it will grow into what you would like. Also, the man you were engaged to is probably orchastrating this whole thing with Bill. He wants you to go on with you life dear and wants you to be happy. So he is watching over you and has been seeking out the right man for you. You know this because you feel him around you all the time. Keep me posted as to the progress with Bill. :-)

Answer 3

My understanding is that the dropping of things takes place in real life, not in the dream. But It seems to indicate that you're both nervous in each other's presence.

There is something in your idea of Bill (not necessarily in Bill himself) that is threatening and dark; your dream is telling you that if you get involved with Bill you may be threatened.

However, I don't know how old you are or what your sexual experience has been. Because you are female, it could be that you are afraid of "penetration" through the "doors"--i.e., of sex. This doesn't mean you are necessaily a virgin; it means that you have feelings about sex that perhaps aren't positive.

Does this indicate that Bill is a threat? No, not based on anything you've said. It may mean that a sexual relationship with Bill, at some level that you're not consciously aware of, is going to "let something in."

Now, that "something" may not be threatening or bad. It may be something that you actually need to experience.

My feeling is that you will have a passionate, loving relationship with Bill, that it will be good for you, but that it will involve the pain of "letting in" a new experience.

Answer 4

You may be feeling a sort of anxiety about the prospect of becoming intimate with a new man.

In your dream, you two are locked together (Symbolic of being married or committed to one another)

You become physically intimate (the kiss) and suddenly are interrupted by a something big and frightening that will destroy you both.

You may be afraid of getting close to someone and then getting your heart broken. How many boyfriends have you lost? How many guys were you once "in love" with but now cannot stand to even see or talk to?

Just an idea.

Answer 5

You seem to have some guilt or trepidation about physical intimacy, perhaps with just this one person. (Is he married or somehow "off limits" as in no dating fellow employees?)

Usually in dreams about guilt, you are being chased by something. This one you take the measures to secure your safety but something still threatens to expose you, or possibly your desires.

Run that through your mind and see how it fits.

Good luck.

Peace.

EDIT: Good answer Angelique. (She copied, LOL)

EDIT: That does make sense, losing your fiance. Explains the guilt or fear of discovery (or making Bill off limits). A good many dreams can help us get a handle on our emotions simply by bringing the issue to the forefront. You are ready to "let go" of the fiance and move forward. Take a deep breath and open the windows. You are not betraying your fiance by moving forward in your life. Let it happen. Good luck.

EDIT: You are welcome.

Answer 6

Use your instincts but with such a dream it could mean nothing, it could mean you are scared o fletting someone into your life. It could mean to beware of this guy he is not telling you all there is to know about him.

Dont let him into your home until you are comfortable with knowing enough about him.

Ask people if they know him and what they think. Remember no one really knows what goes on behind closed doors. Put some safe guards inplace before just taking anyone home. tell a friend where you are get them to call you at a special time just to check on you.

Dreams can mean heaps of things so just look at all the different meaning you get out of them and then be careful enough to look at all possible avenues.

Answer 7

It could be your subconscious that you are trying to keep out, for whatever reason. Perhaps, you have doubts or fears regarding relationships. In your dream, you want to live in the moment and enjoy the kiss, but you fear your logical or illogical emotions will come into play, and they bring fear and insecurity.

Having someone you love die suddenly will definitely influence your emotions about everything. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Answer 8

Tres creepy.... It is part of a dream I had !!!! The night before was scarier though. Coz in the tent dream, I was able to pull down the tent and get out and hide someplace while he struggled with the tent.

Answer 9

I would say be careful of the past influences surrounding this person

eg ex girlfriends etc

Answer 10

Sounds like the plot to Evil Dead.