any give away signs i should look out for when it comes to cheating?

Answer 1

Here's some from experience:

1. He becomes critical of you.
2. He starts to dress better & maybe chooses a new hair style & cologne.
3. Becomes absent-minded or "lost in thought".
4. Turns off his cell whenever you're around. May even keep it hid from you.
5. Occasionally looks startled when you begin to speak to him about something. Example: You're annoyed because he didn't take out the trash. You walk into the family room with your hands on your hips and a mean expression on your face. The guy will sometimes even begin to shake and once my first husband confessed everything, even though I was just going to ask him to move his pick-up truck. An innocent guy is just annoyed that you interrupted him while he's watching some old western on TV.
7. Expensive gifts for no occasion, especially if he's not the gift-giving type.
8. Runs for the phone when it rings when before he expected you to always answer it. Is overly curious whenever you answer the phone first.
9. Immediately changes pages on the computer when you come into the room.
10. He claims he feels "stressed out" and needs a night out with the boys. At least every week.
11. Disappearing acts. Says he's running up to Dad's for a few minutes. Comes home 5-7 hours later, freshly showered. You may want to call 'Ol Dad here and tell him that you are concerned about his son's behavior. Ask him how your hubby acted when over at his house the other day? Don't be surprised if Hubby stopped in just long enough to say that he was at Dad's. Don't give Dad any details or how will you get more dirt on your lying dog?
12. Check the bank for ATM withdrawals when your hubby is out-of-town. Or not.
13. Order a copy of the past 3-6 months of his cell phone bill. Any unrecognized numbers keep appearing?
14. Loses interest in his hobbies.
15. Will either lose interest in sex with you or he will want sex constantly with you. Pay attention and look for "new moves".
16. Condoms. Why does your husband need to carry condoms?
17. Loses wedding ring. Really bad when he loses it twice. (Consult the nearest No-Tell Motel for retrieval). Then tell him you found it in the bathroom. He'll know you know something but he doesn't know what. He gets VERY nervous and VERY kind.
18. Start a conversation about STDs. If he's not interested, gives you a mean look or looks at you with eyes as big as pie pans, something's up. If you suspect a woman in particular, you might mention that So-and-So heard that she (the suspected woman) has a fiery case of herpes and isn't it just awful that there's no cure for that? Etc.
19. Watch your friends. Are they a little bit closer to your hubby than before? Or do they pretend he no longer exists? Or do they try to get a chance to be alone together or whisper to one another frequently?
20. How's his car? We all know it's an extension of you-know-what. Is he constantly changing the oil, buffing & waxing it, never gets it dirty, buys new rims, CD player? Hmmm, really?

None of these things mean that the guy is cheating. But I'd launch an all-out investigation if there were enough to make me feel uncomfortable. And, these apply to women as well. Women have a tendency to wear makeup perfectly, even when cleaning the toilet when something fishy is up. She'll also "forget" things at the store, works on her hair & tan nonstop, goes to her OB-GYN more than usual. You following me? Good. And Good Luck.

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Answer 2

When your partner starts to withdrawl from U or starts spending less tiem with you Or maybe he just gets strange phone calls from time to time or often. Let me give U some addvise if ur partner is cheating you need to confront them about it and after that they are steel acting strange then I say it is time to take action. Let them know how much it hurts you and that if it doesn't stop U will find someone better..... noone deserves to be cheated on.

Answer 3

hundreds of ways to find out, but depends on how old you both are, married or longdistance etc etc, i firmly believe in the human beings sixth sense, We all have it and its usually not wrong. If your suspecting somethings wrong then it proberly is, it might not be what you think it is eg another woman or man but they will be something driving your senses on. anyone who has studied or knows behaviourly language or science will tell you that we see and hear things that we dont know we do and are able to asses a situation without having everything laid out infront of us. Loads of games you can play to trick your partner or catch them out, FORGET THEM, best one is to pick a day with no disturbances, were you dont have to be anywhere and neither does your partner and have definete time alone and just come out with it, just simply ask them in a controled and calm voice, Never lose your calmness as its used as an excuse for the other person to slam a door and walk out, what you want is for them to remain in the room with you as this is were you find out. Watch their body language- no eye contact-folding arms is defensive, starts to do something else eg stop wathcing tv and start making dinner- stutters- all are symptoms of lying but not cast iron proof, you cant judge on these alone but you will feel it in your own person you know they are lying when faced with these symptoms- but remember do it in a calm maner or you lose the whole exercise, if calm then your in control and watch them break up and flap in front of your eyes.

Answer 4

Taking phone everywhere including the bathroom. Not answering a ringing phone. Being away more than usual or regularly getting help up at work.

Answer 5

Makes excuses to be somewhere else' Seems to have lost interest in you. Doesn't want sex with you very often or not at all. Stays out all night and you really don't know where he is. There's more.

Answer 6

Over protecting their Mobile Phone.

Answer 7

lack of eye contact

Answer 8

never around... always has to go somewhere leaves when you had plans... can never talk to you