A lot of guys talk to me like I'm their therapist. They tell me their problems and then they compliment me about whatever, they say I'm a good listener, too. I want to talk about fun stuff though, and not how terrible you've been treated in the past. Does this mean something else, guys? Clue me in please.
2007-09-27 19:06:03 · 5 answers · asked by linda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They always ask me out, too, one even said I was the kind of girl he could marry. Last guy that was for yoy. Other guy maybe they are looking for sympathy sex, too bad they wont find it here haha.
2007-09-28 00:18:19 · update #1
If someone isn't sick, he doesn't need a doctor. They want help from you to avoid such problems in the future. If things are going well, why would they seek your help? Maybe just be honest with them and let them know you don't like their dwelling so heavily on bad past treatment?
2007-09-27 19:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means they aren't attracted to you. This happens in reverse all the time, girls using guys as emotional ****-buddies. If you start making fun of their problems, they might not stop coming to you for empathetic support, but you can still have a lot of fun as they pour their hearts out to you.
2007-09-28 02:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mer? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their trying to make you feel sorry for them. Their looking for sympathy sex.
2007-09-28 02:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by 1funnyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh. be content that those guys are pouring their hearts out to you. cause guess what..not many guys do that.
i hate it when girls just want fun conversations. seriously. GROW. UP.
2007-09-28 02:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jessy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe guys feel naturally comfortable around you. or maybe they like you and playing the guilt card on you
2007-09-28 02:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋