they found it i think three months ago and im still trying to make my life as if i dont have it. my moma wont let me skip my treatments and the people that i tell or my moma tells always treat me a whole lot differently than they did and i hate it.and if i tell him he'll be even more over protective over me.i have half a mind not to tell him but he's my big brother and im his baby sister.so any suggestions???????????:(
2007-09-26 07:30:25 · 5 answers · asked by no.need 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
okay i still need help. i told him and now he wont even look at me. i asked him why he isnt talking to me but he wont answer me.i think that he might hate me and i dont want him to. i cry all night but he seems as if he dosent care.he looks at me and then he starts to cry and leaves. what wrong with him. why does he hate me all of a sudden?im only 14.
2007-09-28 16:28:03 · update #1
You do need to tell him, all and all, he'd be very hurt that you didn't tell him. The best thing to do, is sit down with him and explain to him that you don't want to be treated any differently. And that you are still the same person, nothing different, except for having to go to the doctor a lot. Explain that if for some reason your cancer does not go into remission, you want to live the rest of your life to it's fullest, and not acting sick all the time. That's the best way I can think of. Good luck, and take care!
2007-09-26 07:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lizards 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't hate you. He isn't coping well and he doesn't have a clue as to what to say to you. Perhaps you could break the ice by talking to him and maybe try to talk about things that are on neutral ground, not about the leukemia. This could help you both in being able to start talking again.
2007-09-30 05:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him ASAP. The support is incredible - i've met several people with leukemia and i decided to run a marathon & fundraise.
http://www.active.com/donate/tntnyc/tntnycTReluci
He will be upset, of course, but it will be worse if you don't tell him and he finds out way later on. He might think you lied to him and didn't trust him
2007-09-28 08:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jace 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 10:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by kirk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear no.need, your brother is afraid of losing you, so he shutdown hes feelilngs, give him time to think about it, those were big news for him. I bet he will talk to you about it when he's ready. For the time being, please don't worry about it, it will only make things worse.
Hope it helps, My best regards
2007-10-01 04:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by Scentless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋