wht i do?? my bf said me soo many lies.....i cnt digest at all... bt this is also true i love him vry vry vry much.... i always forgive him.. bt he doing always .....nw he bcome regular of it....shall i leave him...bt i knw i also cant leave without him... he is every thing for me i love him so much...bt nw his lies are abv watermark... kindly adv wht i do??
2007-09-25 23:50:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see kamini, you have to make up your mind. Your question reflects your situation that you want to keep your feet on both the boats. Well lemme tell you thats not possible and it not good either. You have to decide whether your love for your bf is more or your tolerance for his lies is more. also you can sit with him and tell him how you feel about his lies. If he really cares for you then he should give up that habbit. Tell him that his lies are leading to you not being able to trust him and is therefore affectnig your relationship and if wants to save the relationship he needs to mend his ways.
also you need to analyse your inner self to know exactly what you wana do with you relationship.
Its possible that he might for now say that he will not lie to you but are you wanting to take that chance?? do you wanagive your relationship one more chance? do you have the patience for him to change or to come across some more lies that he has told you now or in the past and that comes to surface sometime in the future?
you need to do a lot of thinking within yourself and then take the next step.
so first sort things within your mind and then act accordingly.
all the best. think hard and think well and then take a decision after considering hte pros and cons of all sides of the situation. Only take a decision after being completely convinced of what you want.
take care
2007-09-25 23:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him no good for you at all u can do better than him
plenty of fish in the sea so chear up stand up to him show him your *** and walk away girl find some on with a little more respect for you and your fealings you may be upset at first but then u will realise it was the best choice
2007-09-26 00:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by bandannaman23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you decide that you are going to let him disrespect you like that for the rest of your life, or get strong and leave him. He will not change if you let him get by with the lies.
2007-09-25 23:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can leave without him you just dont want to ,cz you love him too much. but if he keeps on lying to you, you gotta let him know if mess up one more time he had to hit the door. and trust it will be for the best it will be hard but you will get ova it as time goes by.
2007-09-26 00:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by CLAIRE~BEAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very tough decision but if I'm you I'm going to leave him why?? even though I can't leave him... his a liar, he's lying to you so many times! and you haven't think that he is betraying you... but let's think in a positive if you leave him... there out there are so many sweet, not lying, cute guys out there.... and 1 more thing look inside your heart (hypothalamus) and ask yourself "does he love me at all?"... because if he love you he will never lie to you....
^_^
2007-09-26 00:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by uchihakamille 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can barely read your question, i need a stupid dictionary to translate. if he is a liar, get rid of him because he is only using you. then, in your free time, take some typing classes and ask more efficient questions.
2007-09-25 23:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree about the typing and spelling.
However, if he is a liar, dump him. It will only go worse.
2007-09-25 23:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him deviji .. woh dusht aapke layak nahi ...
if you want advice you can IM me at d_holy_devil or this id
2007-09-26 00:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Krazny Oktybr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn to type no one likes to read messages lik tis. and leave him
2007-09-25 23:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM OR CUT HIS TOUNGE....
2007-09-26 00:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by chiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋