I dont want to seem rude. I just want women to give their honest opinions.
I've been a good and kind person my whole life and I noticed that women around me tended to date jerks instead of nice guys or atleast fall for jerks.
So who are women more attracted to KIND GUYS or MEAN JERKS?
2007-09-25 22:45:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I seem to attract the ones who are trouble.Not necessarily bad ones,but ones who are no good to get involved with.
Some of them so far:::::
*Two alcoholic's,and one was a violent one
*A compulsive liar who lived a double life, and was known by police for his dishonesty crimes,which I had no idea about.
*An idiot who when we split up, left the country remarried and messed her life up and got deported back to our country.He was gone three years and didn't write to his daughter.Came back and said he would be a better father to her,and still messed up.
*Another one got me pregnant when I was young and then when we split up he got someone else pregnant.But he died before either kids were born.
Hows that for jerks!!
Am I over them-you bet!! But have I leant that I now will not settle for anything but a decent guy-for sure!! I didn't look for jerks,but I found them or they found me. But apart from one of them I got rid of them quickly,rather than hanging around for more punishment.None hit me,coz I would never settle for that.Well they could hit me,but it wouldn't happen twice. My biggest thing was that I fell for someone too fast.And by the time I realised they were bad news I was already hooked on them.But that didn't stop me dumping them. Now I really know what I want in a guy,and a sleezy bad news one is not it!! A decent guy for sure!!
2007-09-26 03:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Forgetmenotshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's biological because they have an inbuilt need to look for protection so jerks who are mean to other guys come out top. Doesn't usually last though because unless the woman has a problem they should see through and end up with a nice guy (if such a thing exists)
2007-09-25 23:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are attracted to jerks not all. Personally I prefer a nice guy.
2007-09-25 22:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mean Jerks appeal to women. They will never admit it. It slaps them in the face to realize that they are attracted to control freaks. Women have a natural desire to be protected, and there is a primate type affinity for this strange fact.
However, it's not the "Mean Jerk" that they are attracted to, it's the dominate controlling bossy male figure - father figure.
It's why so many of them will screw the boss at work!
2007-09-25 22:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by BIGDAWG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, been there before.. once i've been slightly attracted to a 'jerk'.. jerk as in very tactless, insensitive, almost rude but very cute. he saw my profile in the friendsters, knows exactly i am in a relationship though continued contacting me... at first he's really annoying but later on, i get challenged with his self confidence. Keeps on saying he's better than my current... and blah blah..
But after a while of non-sense conversations, (since i really prefer 'intellectual type of guy',) i just simply fed up from his arrogance and air. he's cute but who cares if the brain is empty.
So keep it up... just be confident and natural... sometimes girls doens't want a guy to be so up-tight coz sometimes it might reflect a 'boring personality' instead of a 'straight image/ personality'.
Hope you'll soon find the right girl who will like you as you are!
2007-09-25 23:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by machooletz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't know they're jerks until we date them. It's the confidence that "jerks" give off that make us attracted to them.
A jerk is usually full of himself and knows that he can get a woman if he wanted. The nice guys just kinda watch and admire the women instead of stepping up.
It's the confidence ^_~
2007-09-25 22:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by kekee_v88 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not attracted to jerks at all, but I think maybe American women are. I think its because of the political correctness towards feminism, they internally like someone to break that rule and be mean, I guess for them its a turn on, a challenge
2007-09-25 22:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by ------ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
AS you mature, you will find that good guys get the mean, unfaithful, and inconsiderate, who are nice. Guys who run around, abuse, and treat women like dirt, are the ones who get the good women. It works both ways. After a while you may realize that, you should just get a blow up doll, at least it won't treat you like trash.
2007-09-25 22:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its true dont let them lie to you! Women love playing games and nice guys finish last! Its usually hot chicks who like the bad boys. Girls will always fall for or get pregnant by the bad boys than they will eventually grow up and want to meet a nice guy.You can trick these bi@tches by acting bad then make them feel like they changed you! Trust me it will work. As soon as they get bored with you then spice things up by acting bad! Hope I was able to help!
2007-09-25 22:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are attracted to jerks finding them easy game to play. However, the attraction does not last long.
2007-09-25 22:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋