Background, I've been married for 4 years, but my husband cheated on me so I decided to not give a **** and find someone else... so I met this guy and I started having feelings for him. We talk on the phone for hours every night and I'll come over his house a couple of times during the week and every weekend and we would just watch tv, watch movies and fool around. When I sleep over and he would make me breakfast in the morning... Long story short, told me right off the bat that he doesn't want a commitment and that he didn't want to get attached to me because I just got over a 4 year relationship...
He says he likes me and he likes spending time with me...
The sexual attraction was really hot because he said I was the best and he loves kissing me. The last time I saw him was when we had sex 4 times in 1 day...
A few days later, he told me he needed space... he said he needed to fix himself first..
Why do you think he cut me off?
2007-09-25 22:11:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The last time I talked to him, he said I can always call him for anything but we couldn't meet face to face because he said he "can't keep his hands to himself"... I don't want to call him because it hurts... I don't know if he has feelings for me...
2007-09-25 22:14:02 · update #1
I even asked him if I could see him one more time because I wanted to have sex with him but he said "No..." he didn't want emotions mixed up again. TMI, I always get him off a bj...I'm a little frustrated because I am so hot for him.
2007-09-25 22:42:18 · update #2
Is it because U are just for sexual gratification...? he is not
emotionally attached or committed to U at all...DUMP'UM...
MOVE ON...LIFE IS SHORT...R U highly sexually aroused,
it could be it too, He cant satisfy U...2bz.
2007-10-03 18:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a classic line a lot of people use ''i need space'' it usually happens when the relationship is progressing. I think things were getting a little to serious for him , he wants an easy going no strings attached relationship. He will always use the ''i need space'' line when things get a little bit more serious because hes probably scared of falling to hard and getting hurt. He wont say no to sex though because that's pretty much why hes in this relationship, its really the only reason why people get involved with married people.
2007-09-25 22:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he can't commit. he obviously likes the excitement whrn your 1st with someone then bolts once the novalty wears off.
He to an extent has a point about you just getting outta a 4yr relationship. You do need time to yourself after that. Have a bit of fun but don't get into another relationship for a while, Just have fun for a while and make sure you are truely over your ex. Cheating can cause deep wounds that need to be addressed before you move on..... good luck
2007-09-25 22:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typical guy using u for sex. At least you liked the sex. Not that common with men I find so u were lucky. Good u kicked that husband out. You sound like u are attracted very physically to men as apposed to the lovey dovey stuff. Maybe next time find a guy who turns u on physically before you agree to go out with another guy.I'm the same I really need someone who has a hot body and pereferably a blonde.
2007-09-25 22:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he cut me off? My answer: we all want to feel important to someone and he must of made you feel important, it is to bad that sex was involved to the degree that it was. Relationships are more than that and unfortunatly he got the prize to soon. Guys can be ungrateful once they get the goods. Sorry that he needs space, give that to him also, since you gave him the other. Sex should be the result of love and not the reason for it.
2007-09-25 22:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by james.ampmerch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is how you properly train a dog. When they don't listen to you, you run after them, pleading and crying for them to be a Good Boy. After 5 months of this they will take pity on you and start to listen to you. Also, you have to sign them up for English classes. No sense in expecting them to go straight from Doglish to English, silly! Keep baking those cakes - if you love him enough, he'll come around!
2016-04-06 01:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has a lot to do with that fact that he says he doesn't want to get serious...this has happened to me before. He still has feelinsg for you but he probably think things are getting a little too heated or your're getting to attached so he wants to cool it down. He obviously cares about you and doesn't want to hurt you so I think he's trying to say he needs space to figure where he wants to be and what he really wants to do.
2007-09-25 22:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so ur husband cheats on u and u also go and do the same thing? man ur just as bad as him then dunt u think? oh cool u were also quite fast on getting over ur husband..
well yeah he knows that being in a relationship with a married woman who has jsut gotten over a 4 year relationship.. he doesnt want to think that he is rebound material that is why he asked for the space to begin with.. and that is why he cut u off i think.. u should also use this time to evaluate ur life and the men in ur life also.. :)
2007-09-25 22:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Chiv D 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
MAYBE HE'S BEING HONEST?? Possibly he is trying to protect you from getting too attached before he figures out what he wants long term. Wait a bit and why not ask him directly?
2007-10-03 18:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by sweet stuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just wants you for company. he wants to stay free but still fool around with you. look if u have feelings for him just get away from him because ur feelings for him might grow with time and you may get hurt. find another decent guy for a relationship.
best of luck
2007-09-25 22:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by babyandme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋