14 i noe im little but my boyfriend said to take it slow that evertything is going to be ok n to pray that god is going to help me i believe him but its to hard
2007-09-25 20:09:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your boyfriend is a man and youre a child. Any 19 year old who is with a 14 year old has to be retarded. I hope your parents report him to the police and he goes to jail for molesting a child.
2007-09-25 20:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever watched that show on NBC called To Catch A Predator? It's about men chatting with young girls online and then trying to meet them for sex. Do you realize that your boyfriend is an adult and you're a minor. He could be charged and labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life if you two have sex. Is this something you really want? If your boyfriend truly cares for you, he'd break things off, knowing what he's doing is wrong. I'm finding it hard to believe that you two would have anything in common. Do the right thing and end things. You may cry for a few days, but believe me, when you're older and have kids, you'll be appalled and what you did because as a parent, you want to make sure your children are safe. Staying with this guy is not safe.
2007-09-26 02:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents could make your 19 year old BF's life very difficult if they chose to. You are only 14. Girls mature at a quicker rate than guys so you are probably on the same mental level as your old man but he is only trying to manipulate you. He knows you are young and you are easy to control. Stop talking to him, listen to your parents. Be a good little girl for once in your life.
2007-09-25 20:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course your parents are trying to control your life--you're a 14-year-old CHILD with an ADULT boyfriend.
Listen to your parents.
2007-09-25 20:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur parents dont have a problem with u dear,they just tying to protect you and get u 2 do the rite thing, have you ever wondered y that boyfriend of yours prefers to go out with you as a minor when there sum gals his age or not minors,doesnt he no its wrong to go out with a minor. what he says about you pray to god so things get rite might be sum swit talk to get you to beliv he is ok.stay alert and take care of ur self, he migth be tryin to use u.get ursrlf a boyfriend your own age or a year older,cause u wil be more free to talk ur mind and feelings out with him.
2007-09-25 20:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by lebinah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is breaking the law and you are a child. Its good that your parents are trying to control your life because by the sounds of it your ready to have a head on crash.
You believe your boyf because you are young and naive and that's what a perv like him likes.... listen to your parents, they may stop you making a huge mistake
2007-09-25 20:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last time I encountered that situation, I recommended to the girl that a lot of their alone time together was putting enormous tension on them as they tried to avoid sex. Today, that age difference can result in statutory rape charges and labeling as a sexual preditor for the rest of his life, even if he marries you. If nothing else, get some birth control going now.
2007-09-25 20:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mike1942f 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should just listen to your parents cuhz your parent are just trying to protect you from older guys
i'm sure your parents will be nicer if you dated a guy in your age bracket
all guys start out nice in the begining
just follow what your heart is telling you to do
but dont fall for this guy too easily
i'm sure you'll make the right choice
2007-09-25 20:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew Ho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are just being protective towards their child. ur boyfriend is right.Never rush things.Otherwise things may get ugly or turn out as u didnt wanna be.So pray.
2007-09-25 20:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents are controlling your life because you are still a kid (legally).. they are responsibel for you and if you are only 14 it is illegal for you to be with a 19 year old. he can get into trouble with the law as well as possibly your parents
2007-09-25 20:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by amandica82 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋