Ok, here's the detail, bare with me here. I met my girl friend in class, around 3 weeks ago. At first I was just playin along, and ended up asking her out. She've been numerous relationship before and let's just say one of those girls that dont just blurt "I love you" out of the blue, and after 3 weeks, she said to me "I love you" to me yesterday. I don't have that much of a feeling for her as she feels for me, so to say the least, I'm wanting to let go, yet if I do that, I'm affraid it would hurt her, and knowing myself, I can't allow myself to do that to people, let alone someone who loves me. I dont have a problem getting in a relationship, but my life as it is, I have much obligations to fulfill, my business, my schools, my dreams to fulfill, but it's just because this girl seem so attached to me and have a very deep intimate feeling for me, it somewhat scares me... So, what should I do? Does anyone know? should I just give it a try or pull out before any more damages is done?
2007-09-25 19:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by nguyenvinhvx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
" At first I was just playin along, and ended up asking her out"
maybey next time just play with fire instead of another
human beings feeling, this way only you get burned . . .
2007-10-03 13:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ben 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same case as you before and let's say it didn't go well when I agreed to accept my friend's feeling for me. I guess I'm just like you, I also don't want to hurt people especially those who are the closest to me but after what I've been through all I can say is tell her the truth about what you feel for her be frank but at the same time be gentle on how you say your words. Never sweet talk her if you're only going to tell her a bad news because it will hurt her more twice as much.
2007-09-26 03:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is talk to her about it. Confess.
Beating around the bush will hurt her more than telling her straightforward. From there work something out between you.
If it's meant to be it'll work out. =]
2007-09-26 02:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chalice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heyy!!! chill out u knw aftr my xperiences dear i wud suggest u 2 let go.....take lite at moment u wud jus think o'her c b4 its too late b a bit practical u'wud realise later tht u wer wastin ur precious time wen u cud do wondrs for ur family n urslf!!!! wake up these thin's turn back n u need to catch thm at rite time!!! i dont want u 2 waste time like i did and regret later nw if u dont wanna hurt her thn just tell her straight it wud pinch but not tht much if she ***'s to no later tht u'wer fakin' on!! i donno ur age but wud suggest u to indulge ur slf in active turn ons to divert urslf................and u knw she 's bin into many relations b4 u....just b freeeeeeee n fly 2ur dreamzzzz man!!! makin ur parents happy is priceless. take care. goodluck!
2007-09-26 02:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by angels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look to the sky for a reply
2007-10-03 20:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by mr fugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend is hard too come by so let her down slowly, say it you! not her.. and maybe she'll be friend for life..
2007-09-26 02:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you just told us. Do it now, waiting will just make things worse.
2007-09-26 02:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by CJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your lucky to have some who loves you so much
2007-09-26 02:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋