It seems that there is that phrase, "I need to get some." This would imply reception. But doesn't a man give, rather than receive sex, being that he does the penetrating? Isn't the woman the one who is actually "getting some"?
2007-09-25 16:41:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FASCINATING QUESTION . . .
There is an age-old addage which goes like this -->> "Men GIVE, women RECEIVE" . . . and some people SWEAR that this is BIOLOGICAL DESTINY.
Women usually REALLY LIKE THAT IDEA( "Men GIVE & Women RECEIVE") . . . .UNTIL the subject of SEX comes up.
That's when they PREFER to think that its ALL UP TO THEM to give, or HE is not "getting any". This idea doesn't turn MEN on . . . . AT ALL.
That's why women are so keen on RELATIONSHIPS, MARRIAGES - and getting men to "COMMIT" - because it gives HER all the power to decide.
It's REALLY FASCINATING when you acknowledge the fact that MOST MEN ARE "EXPECTED" TO GIVE A HELL OF ALOT MORE THAN SEX . . . . . IN ORDER TO GET IT.
Some women even expect men to buy a diamond, make a promise to GOD FOR LIFE UNTIL DEATH, and give 1/2 of the rest of his life to her in order to "receive". Pretty hefty PRICE to pay, wouldn't you say??? And then she STILL expects to reserve the right to DENY it to him when she gets a headache, or just doesn't FEEL like it.
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It's all a question of "mentality".
Women KNOW that men are interested in them for SEX. And as long as men are chasing after it, and pretending like they can't live with out it, then they PUT WOMEN IN THE POSITION OF DECIDING WHETHER TO "GIVE" IT OR NOT.
But if a man doesn't CARE to look to just ONE female, or place that much importance on it, you will notice that the women begin to say things like -->> "I am not getting much lately". . . . . . and "why doesn't he want it from ME??"
This gives him the FREEDOM to not have to turn to JUST ONE FEMALE in order to "GET IT". . . when a man would PREFER TO KNOW that he has plenty of other options.
Men are universally hesitant to rely on - and give their power away to - ONE CERTAIN female who will assume the role of GIVING/RECEIVING it whenever it suits HER.
This is true with most males in most species on earth.
FACT: WHOEVER CARES THE LEAST HAS THE MOST POWER IN A RELATIONSHIP.
And that explains why MEN are the ones who seem to universally care LESS about "committed relationships", because they don't particularly ENJOY the idea of having to look to HER for permission to "GET SOME", when he would actually be MORE fulfilled to GIVE IT TO HER WHENEVER - AND HOWEVER - HE FEELS LIKE IT.
. . . just like other males in other species on earth.
Great question.
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2007-09-25 17:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
I believe some do, yes...I also believe many understand those 2 things can be mutually exclusive... I have sex because I enjoy sex...unless I'm in a loving relationship with the person I'm having sex with, I fully understand it's just a passionate act between two people who may (or may not) care about each other on some level... I don't "give sex" in hopes of being loved...I want my partner to love me for far more than my skills in bed... ☺♥☻
2016-04-06 01:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I have to say a woman gives a lot in that area. I am trying to be careful here.
Unless she is without passion, she is going to give as good as she gets before the act, during the act.
Not only that, sex is a sleeping pill for a man, so to keep him awake she has to REALLY give all that she's got.
The average man last about an hour, so to get a couple of hours it is obvious who is giving the giving. I would say it is a 40/60 split.
2007-09-27 00:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy ALWAYS gets some. He always enjoys it, am I right? I'd say most of the time (if their partner is good) girls get some too, but we are the ones giving! I'm sure sometimes they don't enjoy it as much as the guy does. The guy always blows, hence he always is the one "getting" some and the girl is the one "giving" unless you'd rather use your hand.
2007-09-25 16:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it give and take for both the man and woman?
That's what I think.
2007-09-26 11:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its both, but maybe not 50/50. Generally I think the man gives more.
2007-09-25 16:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by leeannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's both. When a man says "I need to get some" he's referring to orgasm. So he gets orgasm from the woman, and gives her penetration.
It also works with respect to a woman. She gets penetration from him (and, if he does it right, orgasm too) and gives him orgasm.
2007-09-25 19:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Paul R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is giving and receiving both.
2007-09-26 04:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always a give and take both ways. Unless the man doesn't care to please the woman. Then it's just take.
2007-09-26 07:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by compendious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is both. Then u call that sex. Both participate in sex so what to asked.
2007-09-25 16:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by catwoman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋