We have known each other for about four-five months. We are sexually active, and I was a virgin until he broke me in. I love him and just last week told him so. He told me he didn't love me, yet. Is this a guy thing, or should I just take my pride and leave before I am really in deep doo doo. Is he in denial, and really in love with me, or am I being used and abused?
Most importantly, if you know any methods besides being myself and caring for him deeply that I could utilize to allow him to love me, please let me know. Basically, I need help on the whol shabang, so comments on anything, even experiences I would love to hear.
Thanks!
2007-09-25 16:35:20 · 9 answers · asked by hopeisathingwithfeathers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he even at least like you a lot?? If he's been around for 5 months that has to mean something. Either he likes you or you knows you'll give him sex whenever he wants it. You need to find out for sure what's going on in his mind.
xxx
2007-10-03 16:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broke you in? What are you a pony? Yes, its a guy thing (sorry) During the younger years, I remember, most guys would not fling the word love around. Why? Because of all the harassment from the other guys. Guys that admitted they were "IN LOVE", never heard the end of it! At a young age we have a image to protect. We don't want to be marked as a candy-***, soft lil, wussy! Or what ever the lingo is now-a-days! I fell in love with my first also...to this day I still think about her, that was 30 years ago. Even if you want to know how he really feels, don't push the subject. At your young ages it just pushes him away.
2007-10-03 22:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're in love before he is in love with you. That is perfectly fine. Stay with in your relationship and have a great time. Eventually, one day, he will love you and tell you that. Remember, just because you say you love him, doesn't mean he have to say it too, especially when he doesn't yet love you. He likes you and if you have no suspicion of him being a player or a man-whore, just carry on your relationship with him and be happy together.
2007-10-03 22:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one that gave it away.
Sorry to hear that by the way. He's got you where he wants you. At least he was honest in saying that "he doesn't love you".
So... sounds like the ball is in your court. Continue being used or give yourself another chance to find the right one, whose waiting for you out there somewhere.
Frankly, I wouldn't stay with someone who doesn't love me and just wants the sex.
Move on.
2007-10-03 22:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by hugskisses4707 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Darling dump him and move on he dosent deserve you and you will meet plenty nicer guys out there who will fall in love with you.
2007-10-03 23:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by prasila s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Look for a better guy.
2007-10-03 21:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I agree. Dump his fat ***. ;)
Quit bein' manipulated into uncomfortable situations!
Be strong - and keep your moral values intact.
2007-09-26 14:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Pumpkin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.Look lass you're growing up and before you get too emotionally hurt,do something concrete.Stop being his lover,tell him it's about love.He'll get the message.
2007-09-26 01:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't give your virginity to him that is all i can tell you!
2007-09-26 03:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋