time. I used to get upset. I wanted him to spend time with the kids but to make time for me also he says his kids want all his time and don't want him to send time with anyone else. They are teenagers. Anyways now I don't complain when he stands me up (because the kids never want to go back to their mom) and he is saying I don't care about our relationship because I don't complain about him not coming to see me. I thought this was what he wanted now his kids have him all to themselves and he doesn't have to hear me complain about him not being with me when he says he is but never comes. So why isn't he happy?
2007-09-25 16:22:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in a very tough situation. See if you can spend time with him and his kids. Tell the kids that you are not trying to take over being their mom. Show them your fun side and take them bowling, I'm sure they will appreciate it. GOOD LUCK
2007-09-29 16:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be happy cause he may feel that you are going outside of the relationship or that you are thinking about moving on. Why don't you all try and do something that involves all of you. Maybe going to a movie or something that you and him and the kids as well can enjoy. Also since the children are teenagers why not have him see what they think about sometimes they spend time with him alone sometimes all of you all and also some try to see what he feels yo all can do to have time together with out having to ignore or blow off his children.
Good luck and be Blessed.
2007-09-25 23:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it stresses him out having to divide the time between all of you and it's made him upset as well. He may feel bad that he isn't spending time with you, and he knows it upsets you. You both need to sit down and have a serious discussion about your relationship, how you both feel about each other, and how you can make it work.
2007-09-25 23:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you spend time with him and the kids? Why can't all of you do some things together? I don't know, go see a movie or go roller-skating, whatever.
2007-09-25 23:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kay3535 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious, this is a joke, right?
You have a man, who probably gets sex when he wants and does as he pleases and has browbeaten you into keeping your trap shut while he does God knows what and you call this man your boyfriend? What about his other lady friends, what do you call them, cause he is using you and pushing you away and you just take it and don't stand up for yourself and break up with him and get a decent man?
2007-09-25 23:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋