If you are in your 30's, have a teenage son, work full-time, would you do this to your significant other or want it done to you? Is this a way for a grown woman to mark her territory even though the husband is already wearing a wedding ring? Let me know your opinion. I personally think it's immature and not my idea of hot and wild sex.
2007-09-25 16:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, this strikes me as more of an "I have something to prove" maneuver. Unless your wife has a hickey fetish, and that's a whole other issue, I'd ask her to lay off. They don't look good, and they don't feel particularly good to get. If it is an insecurity thing, I'd try reinforcing her ego a little in the bedroom, and maybe sandwiching the request for her to stop between compliments. Something to the effect of: "That feels SO good!/No more hickeys, okay?/Yes, I love what you're doing!"
Alright, my pillow talk is no good, but I hope my advice was. :)
2007-09-25 16:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dave B. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think is very immature and so low for someone to show off in a "slutty" way. There is this person from work, he is married, has a child and wears his wedding ring, but not only that, he walks around with hickeys all over his neck. My grandma used to say only "trashy" people would do that and it makes everyone turning heads!. It's disgusting! we already know he is married but c'mon do we need to know when he got lucky too?...we all know [according to him] he only gets in once in a blue moon, and once in a blue moon we see him walking around with hickeys (sp?)...it's GROSS and people laugh at him too!.
[edit] I like the guy's above answer: yeah, why not ask her to suck somewhere else *wink*
2007-09-25 16:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sabine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they are very teenager-like. You are right about a hickey marking your territory...that is an old high school idea. If any guy gave me a hickey, it would be the last time I went out with him.
2007-09-25 16:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Julie H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hickeys are just something that mostly teenagers or young people do for fun. yes. it is arousing in various degrees for different people. of course mosst teenagers dont have kids or a job to worry about seeing the hickeys. we just have to hide them from our parents. which can be kind of fun lol
2007-09-25 16:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is mainly the realm of teenagers to do this. However it is sometimes fun to do them as you get older but only in places were they want be seen as its not really acceptable to see adults with them.
2007-09-25 16:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally immature, she's got something to prove it seems
2007-09-25 16:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it loooks skanky,,,, and immature
2007-09-25 16:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋