ok i am with this guy for i think 2 or 3 months. I meet this guy who makes my heart beat so fast and my body hurt when he is around. today he told me how he feels. but i have a boyfriend. I am not sure i LOVE him i dont want to hurt my bf but this other guy i dont know how to explain it in words. I dont know what to do about it i really need help.i am not sure if athis other guys just trying too brake us up or what.
2007-09-25 16:15:11 · 17 answers · asked by skatergirl_15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're bf is a good guy don't mess up a good thing for something you know NOTHING about.
2007-09-25 16:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by unique 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off the longer you wait to break up the previous relationship the harder it is going to be to end it. You are only 2-3 months into it. It may not be that bad to end it if this other guy makes you melt when you are around him. if this other guy told you how he feels and ur previous bf doesnt seem to care that much than go with the other one. tell ur previous bf that you think the two of youns need to take a break from eachother because your not sure if this is what you want. let the boy that makes you melt know that you are in arelationship right now and that you are interested in him but you have to break it off with the first one. this way if the melt down boy is really into you he will understand and wait for you to break if off with the 1st bf. and if he dont wait than he was just trying to break you too up in the first place and your previous bf will think that your on a break and there fore you can go back to him (1st one) well good luck and hope u chose the right one....
2007-09-25 23:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would 't dare judge that is wrong but at least I can say it's not totally right. Holding your feelings back is always hard ( I truly understand that).
It's not fair to your bf, to you. Love is seeking for the feelings that you can only have with a very special person, isn't it?
Maybe your feeling about the other guy is a fleeting feeling but you have to define it first and your bf deserves to know the truth. Tell him and ask for his favor to wait for you for a little more time until you know what is really going on. Go out with the other guy and see what that feeling is.
I'm sure that you can make up your mind then.
Hope everything will work out.
2007-10-03 23:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...
Woah, is that a heck of a situation... well, I'm not sure exactly how you feel, so I can't be the judge of that, but I know how it feels loving someone and it sure feels good 'cause like... It's LOVE! Haha... yah.. They say that when you encounter love, go ahead and grab it while you can.
Well, with regards to your boy, I also don't know whether or not you should break up with him. Maybe you should "experiment" on your feelings first. Maybe this other guy is just trippin' on you and you wouldn't know... right? Or maybe otherwise. :)...
So try it. Just let time pass and observe. DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR BOYFRIEND.
Good luck hun.. hope everything turns out great.. FOLLOW YOUR HEART.. : )
2007-10-03 23:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by abc12310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skatergirl, the grass always looks greener on the other side. But like you said you already have a boyfriend and it would be a kick in the nuts to him if you dropped him like a hot potato for someone else. Also be careful as Karma has a long memory and it may come back to bite you just so you can sense how it feels also. Good luck in making your decision.
2007-09-25 23:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this guy know your boyfriend? Why do u think he wants to come bet. u & your boyfd.?
Be honest w/ your boyfriend, remember if the sitch was reversed think about how you'd feel. If you don't want to break up w/ you boyf. atleast tell him you'd like to open up your relationship to allow u both to see other ppl this way you can sort out your feelings for this other guy. Plus it's ok to be attracted to somebody else but it may not go anywhere so think about whether the 2/3 mos. guy is worth ruining what u have w/ your boyfriend.
Take care
2007-09-25 23:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by BklynNative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would only be fair to your boyfriend to tell him the truth. Don't lead him on, you will only hurt him worse and he will be able to pick up on what's going on. Even if this guy is just trying to break y'all up, the fact is, if you have feelings for someone else, then I would let your bf go so that he doesn't end up getting hurt or humiliated a lot later.
2007-10-03 19:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" today he told me how he feels. "
Does he also know you have a boyfriend cause if he does
then good luck cause your realy gonna need it, and so will
he once your boy friend get's the idea of what's going on,
not to mention " I am not sure i LOVE him " if this
statement means the guy that melts you, and not your
boy friend, your being played, and when he's finished
you'll be put back in the closet with the rest of his
skeletons . . .
2007-10-03 20:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ben 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have only been with this guy 2 mnths. Best to hurt him now instead of waiting a yr and ur heart not being totally with him.
2007-09-25 23:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation......usually confuse with love. if you are not sure bout your feelings for your current BF then break up or have some time off for you to think were your heart is...This way you will not hurt anyone's feelings in the process.
2007-09-25 23:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by timbalita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking around, (which it sounds like you are), instead of being faithful to your boy friend; than at least have the decency to "cut loose" the boy friend. Yeeessh! Are you a player and a user too? At least let the boy friend go, so he can find someone else, instead of being tortured by you.
Make up your mind.
2007-10-03 22:52:01 · answer #11 · answered by hugskisses4707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋