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i'm 18 yrs old i only had one bf but he died 4mnths into our relationship but that was almost 2yrs ago.i don't got alot of girlfriends cuz i don't like the way most of them act and carry about themselves but i only got one for now cuz i try to choose wisely.b4 i'm the type of girl not be rushing for a bf but now like its changing.at times i feel really really lonely like if i need a guy company but anytime i try to be friends with some guys they always get out of hand.i feel like i need someone to hang out with and to talk to but my mom says i'm to young for a bf so i don't know what to do bcuz i'm listening to her.i'm not looking for anyone but i think love should find me.i'm very attractive and ALOT of guys like me so what should i do????

2007-09-25 16:12:57 · 3 answers · asked by Dangerously Gorgeous 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I have to tell you when I read your question you sound like a very mature person -- someone who would make a good decision regarding a boyfriend.

Concerning your Mom you might prepare the ground for having a boyfriend by telling her what you said here. You know that marriage is a serious step and if you do get a boyfriend you are not going to get married until you are sure he is right for you. You are also going to wait until it is the right time for you to get married. If you want to finish schooling before you get married that is what you want to do.

Also you could tell her that you are lonely and it is natural for a girl your age to want to go out on dates and have some fun? If you don't go out on dates with different boys, how will you find the special one who will later become your husband.

It sounds like to me that you are mourning your old boy friend. That is a very hard hurt for anyone to bear. You are completely normal. I know it was two years ago, but for your own good -- I hope you don't mind me giving you this advice -- I think you have good instincts on your situation and you should follow them. It's time for you to get back into the dating scene.

Besides, you are depriving some guy out there of having a very wonderful girlfriend.

You are also right that love should find you and it will find you. In the meantime until it comes along, you still need to have your needs for human friendship met. You deserver to have love find you, but at the same time you also deserve to have your need for friends met -- it doesn't matter whether they are male or female.

No one has too many friends. I think you will find that out shortly, good luck and best wishes.

2007-09-25 16:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

mmmm well you are def not too young for a boyfriend (and i speak as a father of 3 all over 18 and my ex wife and i married when she was 18 --- dont think young marriages dont last we were together 30 years and except for my stupidity would still be together) ---- you dont really have to go looking just keep an open mind and someone will come along ---- best wishes

2007-09-25 16:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1 0

what happen to the guy u got drunk and lost ur virginity with. 2 weeks ago u was looking for him.

2007-09-26 13:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by zaniya 3 · 0 0

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