this February, she had an accident an accident and is now immobile from waist down
i really love her, and cannot imagine deserting her now when she needs me and all the support she can get but i really miss the good times we shared and miss making love. i know i am being selfish! please help......what can i do??????? i love her a lot
2007-09-25 15:51:07 · 11 answers · asked by D43m0n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:) You sound like a wonderful man. You are a human being, and we all need some love time to time. The need to spread our genes and let are specie survive is our basic instinct and need, and the only way to do that is through..uhem! you know what ;)
Both of you should go to a counselor clear things up and make your quality of life better
All the best to you too
2007-09-26 14:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by We can make a difference 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still has her mouth right? Kissing is just as passionate as making love... If you love her as much as you do, find alternatives to your sexual needs. Masturbate? Think of the times that you made love and do your thing to that. Then go over to her and tell her you love her. Will she regain her mobility? If not then unfortunately, if you love her you need to stay with her, if you leave you will regret it and it will open up a whole new piece of luggage for you that may mess up your future relationships.
2007-09-25 15:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you love HER or her body? There is clearly a difference and having sex isn't NECESSARY in a relationship. Sure, it's a way of expressing your love but it most definitely should NOT be the sole purpose of a relationship. You should just love her for who she is, personality, etc. You don't need to have sex to show her your love and vice versa.
2007-09-25 15:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ask this girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's so lucky to have you and vice versa. just be there for her, even if it's not so sexually stimulating right now. i'm sure once she and you settle down and have time to get used to it, you will find a way to turn up the heat. but seriously, sex isn't going to last forever in any relationship. what counts is your gut feeling about her, which is you love her. if you love her, you'll know what to do.
2007-09-25 15:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by h_chick4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like many others whose partners are otherly abled you two will just have to find other ways to please yourselves sexually. If necessary you can speak with a doctor or therapist who may even give you tips and techniques on how to best make love. Best of luck to you both and sorry to hear about your ladies accident.
2007-09-25 15:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation.
2007-09-25 15:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 03:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by leinen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be a jerk when saying this; 0ral intercourse perhaps?
If you love her for who she is, that should be more then enough to forget about lust.
2007-09-25 15:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love her.
2007-09-25 15:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of how she feels...in all this..about herself and about doing this to you...
Dont be selfish...
2007-09-25 15:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by KK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋