How do I tell my girlfriend "nicely" to shave her armpits??

Question

Ok so we first went all the way a few days ago and when I finally saw what she was packing under those pits of hers I nearly gagged. It was like a jungle down there. I really like her but it kind of grosses me out. What do I do?

Answer 1

Tell her you noticed and ask her if she had an alergic reaction to deodrant or shaving cream. Tell her you felt a bit concirned about it.

Answer 2

Chris I'd suggest asking her nicely if she is always a natural lady and likes the European look. Be honest with her and let her know that although you do not find it offensive that it certainly is not a turn on in your books. Perhaps she wasn't ecpecting to make love to you on that night and it just happened that she hasn't shaved in a while as she felt no need to do so. Or perhaps she is a woman who doesn't see any problem with this. Either way if you don't mention it then she will never know how you feel. If you want to continue to see this lady then she would probably appreciate your honesty.

Answer 3

Making a comment about a girl's personal appearance can be a "touchy spot" for some of us.

Try and say something subliminal like "I just love girls with smooth armpits" to one of your friends when she walks by or something. xP

Another suggestion is telling one of her friends and getting them to break the news to her. (Some girls take things better from fellow girls.)

Perhaps she has a reason why she doesn't shave her armpits?

Hope you can find a way to tell/inform her nicely!

Answer 4

You can either tell her straight that you prefer a shaved armpit or you can say you wish to buy her some sleeveless tops and it will look better if her armpits are shaved. You can also offer to bathe together and then shave her armpits for her while she shave your face......?

In any case, i used to trim myself down there only but my boyfriend tells me direct that he prefers no hair down there instead of neatly trimmed hair.....I waxed it all off before we do it again. No offence taken at all. Women are mostly accommodating to this sort of men's preference as long as it is not something unreasonable.

Answer 5

Tell her "Honey, you really do it for me but the hairy armpit thing needs to go".

She will shave because she will be embarrassed not offended.

Answer 6

2 tell u da truth there isn't a nice way, i suggest talkin 2 her friend about it, if she has a real close one nd if she DOES shaves her arms then tell dat friend but if da friend doesnt shave her arms either den don't tell her cuz dat'll put u on bad terms w/her, or u can like grow sumfin out w/ u like hair xtra long nd i she says cut it juz b like well i don't tell u 2 cut ur hair or ur armpits.. juz try 2 sound casual.. well hope i helped.. good luck

Answer 7

Yeah i would tell her that its kinda nasty and if she doesnt know how tell her that you can show her....will be a great armpit shaving experiance =P

Answer 8

Tell her there's a bear under her arm.. tell her just to shave and you don't really like it .. or start talking about how hair holds in funk..maybe she'll get it.

Answer 9

if my boyfriend told me to shave my pits i'd break up with him in about 2 seconds, and i love him a whole lot. don't be so judgemental and leave the girl be.

Answer 10

man i feel sorry 4 u i ****** hate hate hairy armpits it almost happened 2 me once me and my girl were about to go all the way and seen it i was thinkin how can a girl so hot have hairy armpits i told her about it she fixed em up 4 me but u in the matter of tellin her nicely good luck

Answer 11

You must tell her. Just simply tell her that it is not becoming. You already slept with her so I am sure you are close enough to her to just say it. It's no easy way.