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2007-09-25 15:21:00 · 10 answers · asked by mary 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Mary attempt to treat the uninvited guest as well as you would an invited one. You never know they may turn out to be a good friend down the road.
2007-09-25 15:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have uninvited guests to the wedding be cordial and let them stay as long as they are not causing a problem, the same goes for the reception (if you can accomidate) If you can't accomidate them tell them that you are sorry but due to space/planning they must go. But be sure to thank them.
2007-09-26 13:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by L H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. I'm assuming this is at a wedding. Are they just randoms that walked in off the street? If they are kick their asses out!
If they are friends that didn't RSVP or wern't invited because of budget reasons tell them you will try to acommodate them with what you have (seating, food) but as they didn't RSVP or wern't invited this might be difficult. They will just have to take what they are given! This may be nothing and it is more rude for them to show up unannounced than for you not being able to offer them the full service of the invited guests.
2007-09-26 02:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, are you cordial with this person but there just was not room for them on the guest list. If it's this case, be nice to them, get them a seat and a plate of food.
If it's someone who you are not friendly with, then ask them to leave politely. If they don't, get another family member to speak with them outside. If they still don't leave, have that family member call the police. As the bride and groom, continue on with the party inside and don't get involved. Just have the person removed peacefully.
2007-09-25 22:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Answers 2007 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well Mary, in our culture (in Palau) if we had an uninvited guest come to our place we would ask the person to eat or we would get him/her somethin' to eat. Not in your case you give that person somethin' to drink. But anyways we offer food and then rest at our living room tellin' stories and other stuff like that..
2007-09-25 22:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Splex 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
good grief....you are not going to take inventory and make a check list of all invited vs. uninvited guests......enjoy the day and be happy those that came....came!
2007-09-25 23:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you mean if they just show up on your wedding day un-announced and un-invited? Well I guess if you have enough space and enough food to give them then they could stay if you don't object, but if there is not enough food, enough space or you are insulted by the rude person, you have every right to ask them to leave. It also depends on who turns up. It is different if you know them rather than if they are some random you have never met. But if it was me and they just turned up and I hadn't planned for that, I would let them have one drink only, let them offer their congrats and ask them to leave.
2007-09-25 22:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be a gracious host and treat them like any other guest.
2007-09-25 22:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its your day and stranger things have happened to people on this special day so just smile be polite and say thank you when they give you that ENVELOPE!
2007-09-25 22:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by robin r 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell then to leave
2007-09-26 06:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋