Why won't my ex leave me alone?!?

Question

A couple weeks ago, I contacted my ex because I thought I missed him. We ended up getting into a huge fight, screaming and yelling at each other. We agreed not to contact each other at that point. But I don't get it, hes the one that told me to leave him alone, and now for the past week he bs'd his friend to ask about me. He also sent me a couple msgs via IM. Why? Is it because he wants attention? I dont get it.

Answer 1

He still has some feelings for you and when you contacted him that last time it gave him the assumption that you are still interested in him. It depends on many factors though, how long were you together? were you his first girlfriend? and is he seeing someone else now? All in all you need to move on if your truly done with him. He will eventually move on and stop bothering you when he finds someone new.

Answer 2

You are forgetting one important fact---you contacted him first.He may be having second thoughts and missing you the same way you did a couple of weeks ago.You both seem to be playing a game only the two of you know the rules to. If not, get in touch with him, tell him you made a mistake when you contacted him and you would appreciate it if he will just forget you ever did that and you can go your separate ways.There is a law in science that says "for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction" so I was amused when you indicated that his IMs to you could be because he wants attention.If true, then it also applies to you. Get it.

Answer 3

Why dont woman understand its not the movies guys have feelings and most likely he still loves you and he dosnt wanna get over you because he knows what he wants and is trying to make things work. No relationship is problem free so work over the bumps dont just give up which most girls do.