Should I be stringed around by this average to kind of above average looking christian woman, who can't seem to decide if she likes me or not, and keeps me at arm's length. Or should I go for this really gorgeous woman at school, who likes me, and is very sweet to me, and flirts, and does all kinds of cute, and sexy things to get my attention? And I really mean it...she's a babe...that's not my opinion either.
2007-09-25 14:43:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right off the bat, you know I'm picking the pretty one in your school. But, no, I'm not just saying that because she's hot, I have my reasons. It may be important for you to date a christian woman, but you don't even know if she likes you. If she can't make up her mind if she likes you, then she really doesn't deserve your attention. We all deserve to be with someone who's really into us. If the pretty girl is sweet, and flirts with you and trying to get your attention, what are you waiting for. Go get her!
2007-09-25 20:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets start here. Do you consider yourself a Christian? If the answer is yes, then maybe you need to reread your bible where it says do not be unevenly yoked with non believers. I believe that there can be alot of tension in relationships when the two don't share the same beliefs. I am not saying its impossible, but when you are on the same page and going down the same road together I think it makes for a more intense and pleasant journey. Maybe the Christian girl is just really trying to see what you are like, that is why she keeps you at arms length for now. It is respectable that she isn't just jumping to any guy who is right in front of her. As far as the other girl, thats great that she is so beautiful and sweet - but you know looks only go so far right, some gorgeous girls out there can wind up being a real pain in the butt ;) Decide who you think you will be better with in the long run and be up front with them to even find out if they are interested....
Good luck ;)
2007-09-25 21:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mleigh23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised anyone asked this question, but in a good way. Go for the Christian woman- the other one may be more exciting and wild but she doesn't have the morals and values a Christian does. Are you a Christian? If you are not, that would explain why the Christian woman is keeping you at arm's length- she's not sure whether or not she should get mixed up with you because you might bring her down spiritually. Also, she might just be trying to take things slow. She definately will NOT be immodest or ever be anyone's "playmate" in bed before marraige. She might not even kiss, in some occasions, until marraige. Who knows? Just take things slow with her and see where that takes you
BTW Christians are NOT hypocrites
2007-09-25 21:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by MK4JCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't it all depend on your morals and standards?
I, being a Christian, have made up my mind to only go out with Christian males. No ifs, ands, or buts.
I really cannot make this decision for you, nor can anyone else.
Just think about it and ask yourself "Which womans's personality is better" or "Which woman would I last longer with in a relationship?"
Hope you pick the best one for you and good luck! <3
2007-09-25 21:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for the sure thing, or whom ever is the one you like the most. Let's hope its the sure thing because the one that's stringing you along doesn't sound worth it.
2007-09-26 11:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if dating Christian women exclusively is important to you, then you should wait. But if this particular Christian chick isn't what you want, look elsewhere. At church.
2007-09-25 21:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going to a different church.retreats,etc.there's plenty of christian girls out there,you just have to be patient.also you could go to a christian college.hope you find the girl you're looking for ;)
2007-09-25 21:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by still has hope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian then Christian woman, and if you are non Christian then non christian.
2007-09-26 12:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a Christan, choose the Christian Woman. :)
2007-09-25 21:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the type of relationship you want. Do you want to just casually date someone or do you want a relationship that leads to marriage?
2007-09-25 22:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by compendious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋