Ok, my parents are always blaming me for something i didn't do. Now i'm known as the quiet, polite one who always keeps her mouth shut and never argues with authority but latly i have HAVE been screwing up a bit. For exapmle, i ran away for like, 6 hours, then they found me. But they always blame me and now i'm grounded from dating until i'm 18 because of the reason i ran away. I ant to get their trust back so i can start dating again without it being a secret, can anyone help?
I hope a bit of my bakgroung info help. I don't want to get yelled at, i just want help. So if your going to scold me, just get the **** away from you keyboard and get your *** to another question.
2007-09-25 14:43:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay, sweet-heart, been there, done that. Because u screwed up once. They will alway rub it in. But Hun, it will get better. It will take time, but it will get better. Hang in there. Not to worry it will seem like forever. But that about when things start to look up, around that time. Best of Luck................
2007-09-25 15:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetblue85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do it do your time. You did break their trust. Take it from a parent, when you ran away for no matter how short of a period of time, you probably scared them to death. The fear over almost losing you is mixed up with their being upset that you did run away. Show some responsibility....your parents will ease up over time...
2007-09-25 22:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is actually quite mild compared to some I've encountered. Be thankful that you have parents that cared to go look for you. If you screwed up, then stop screwing up and make them believe that you can be trusted. If you go behind their backs on anything they're not going to trust you.
2007-09-25 22:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I can think of is to show your parents how responsible you can be.just by doing extra things that you normally wouldn't do,like helping out a little more around the house and maybe they will be a little more linient towards you.Maybe they were just really mad at the time that they punished you and maybe they will change their mind once they cool off a bit.GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-25 21:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by flavagirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to take some responsability and try to figure out why the reason is they are really mad or blaming you was it this one situation of running away or something else prior to this, also it sounds like you're parents need to communicate with you more without the punishment
2007-09-25 21:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by hurtheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just talk to your parents. Tell them how you feel and tell them why you left. Do it without getting into a fight with them. And then tell them that not allowing you to date until your 18 is unreasonable. It is your life, and though they are your parents, they should not try to shelter you from that social expireance. Im so sorry that this has happened to you.. Let me know how it turns out.
2007-09-25 21:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Nikole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with your parents and discuss your problems, explain how you feel and why you ran away. but dont ask for your freedom. give them a month, prove that your a good kid and that you know you made a mistake. after that be subtle and ask them if you can go out with a few friends first, if they say yes give it another cuple of weeks and then ask if you can go out on a date.
2007-09-25 22:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by emmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parents blame their children for things because of their childhood, they done wrong and think their child will walk in the footsteps. You have to show your parents that you are trustworthy. even though it may not be your fault
2007-09-25 21:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is toe the line for awhile. Then, ask if you can have your friend over to watch TV or something, then ask if you can go with him to the mall for a couple of hours......inch by inch.....
2007-09-25 21:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by icequeenonfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was supportive until your last paragraph. Apparently your maturity dictated the punishment so I would suggest you grow up.
2007-09-25 22:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋