2007-09-25 14:36:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was drinking alot, and when I woke up he was finished, and I was so mad, and had a little discomfort...he said it was not rape, and he didnt do anything, just to himself.
2007-09-25 15:01:26 · update #1
We live together, and I'm not pressing charges, just lost trust and hope for a relationship......
2007-09-25 15:02:59 · update #2
If you didn't consent to it, then yes, its rape.
2007-09-25 14:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kazama 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Non-consensual sex is rape. If you were awake and alert and told your boyfriend to stop, and he didn't, then that would be rape for sure. If you were drunk and unable to make the rational decision to not have sex, and he forced it on you, that might also be rape. In the same vein, if you were asleep or passed out and could not voice your consent, that most likely could also be considered rape.
If you really feel you were violated, you should talk to someone you trust and probably think very seriously about contacting the police. Also a lawyer might be able to help you decide what you should do.
2007-09-25 14:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by ACM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how you look at it. Think about it if you were awake and he asked you to have sex with him would you have said yes or no? if no whether you were asleep or awake then yea id consider that rape because its against your will and not what you wanted. Whether you were awake or not. And if you also consider it rape then i think you shouldnt stay with this person any longer, i know its not my place to say this but he may do something worse in the future. Hope i helped:]
2007-09-25 14:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say No is what it means so have him arrested for Rape! that simple! police will listen to both sides hire a lawyer first!!! cuase sometimes the insiston entrapment now!!
legally its she said he said act!!
money is root now, not law so ask for amout the lawyer can come up with amout, make sure was unprotected/ sometimes that a protection for the Man!!!
2007-09-25 14:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is most definitly rape. If you were asleep and had no idea that he was trying to have sex with you then YES IT WAS RAPE!
Good luck!
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2007-09-25 14:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not rape. YOu are sleeping in his bed.. and how can he have sex if you are sleeping.. if you said stop and he didn't stop it might consider as rape, or maybe he just miss u or joking with you..
2007-09-25 14:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because you are going out does not make the rape not rape. it is still rape even if you are going out. he shouldnt do that to you
2007-09-25 14:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by sweet and sassy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any non-consensual sex is rape, a husband can rape his wife, a boyfriend can rape his girlfriend, a girlfriend can rape her boyfriend, etc etc.. No means no..
2007-09-25 14:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Joe M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then it's called sleep rape.
Yeah, if anyone has sex with you AFTER you say NO, then it's rape.
2007-09-25 14:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by cowboydanimal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's an old argument and it's bogus. Rape is rape. He doesn't respect you. Risk being alone.
2007-09-25 14:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by ta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Literally some people don't consider it rape. But if he forces you to do and you didn't want to do it, then it would be considered rape.. it just depends if you were comfortable with situation...
2007-09-25 14:40:43 · answer #11 · answered by Lips of an Angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋