My boyfriend and I are twenty years apart he has no children but played step daddy to three in the 80's.
Two boys and a girl who are all in their twenties and married the daughter became a drug user like the mother and my boy friend would give her money every week knowing what she was using it for. I have a $1500 morgage and wasn't going for it any more it's bad enough we have to pay for them to move evry 6 months because they can't keep a place to live with 2 kids. So when I stopped her money train she would call my house every day harrassing and threatening me so I called the police on her my boy friend played helpless for months but when the police came he called her and told her what was what and tried to convence the police that the house phone is his name and it was okay with him that she would call me all kinds of racial and degrading things because he didn't want the police at the house? Who side is he really on when it's all said and done the cops took my side should he had?
2007-09-25 14:33:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'd dump him. He cares more about pleasing this wacko girl that's not even his daughter than you, why would you want to be with him? This girl isn't gonna change and things will probably get worse and she cannot go to her mom for help apparently, so who else besides him? If you had to be the one to "stop her money train" that right there should tell you there's a problem...when he "played helpless" for months until the police came, allowing her to harass you, then letting her off the hook by telling the police it's OK (who cares if he called her and told her what was what, he should've done that ages ago) b/c it's most definitely not OK. What's going on between them that he's so protective of her-a drug user who cannot support herself or kids so lives off of whoever will pay- and acts so horrible towards you? I'd wonder...but not for too long...just as I was packing up all my stuff and telling him good-bye! He's not on your side, you took way too much crap from him, and if you don't end it now you'll be sorry later. Cut your losses before it gets worse, he's a loser and his age only makes it worse. I get the feeling he dates younger girls b/c he hopes they won't realize how messed up and what a jerk he really is as quickly as an older girl would.
2007-09-25 15:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Skittychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently when he was the childrens step daddy he loved the kids as his own if not he wouldn't be trying to take care of them now. However, I do believe that he should have taken your side in the matter. You haven't mentioned how long the two of you have been together, that factors in, in situations like this.
2007-09-25 21:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't respect him at all, so why are you still with him? He 'played' stepdaddy. That was the first indication that you don't respect him or his past or his decisions. So do you want to stay with him and continue to fight over who's right, or do you want to move on and find someone who you respect and admire?
2007-09-25 21:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would need to ask him that. And then ask him to pack his bags, his priorities belong somewhere else.
2007-09-25 22:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what???? im confused
2007-09-25 21:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by whtevr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋