My boyfriend broke up with me today. He came up to me this morning and asked me if I had cheated on him and if I had been emailing "John" and I told him that I hadn't. He looked me straight in the eye and said that I was a liar and that he never wanted to speak to me again.
We had been going out for 8 months and we were seeing each other for 3 1/2 months. I dont know what made this come about.
I had asked him earlier (last week) if he was cheating on me with this girl who he had been talking to on the phone. He got all defensive and said that I should know that he wouldn't cheat on me.
I don't know what to think of the situation. Everyone says that I should give it time and that he will get back with me. But what if I hurt too much to take him back. I love him but is that really enough?
2007-09-25 14:04:37 · 3 answers · asked by just wondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sadly, ejc0782 is correct - HE is the one who ACTUALLY cheated, and he wasn't man enough to admit it. So instead of feeling guilty about it, he passed the guilt onto YOUR shoulders.
That way, he could break up with you "cleanly" - and quickly get together with this other woman...
Though it is tragic that this had to happen to you, at least you got out before things got more serious with this douchebag!
Just keep telling yourself that YOU did NOTHING wrong here - and KNOW that is was ALL his fault!!!
Karma has a way of coming around and biting people in the @$$ - odds are, the girl that he is now with will end up cheating on HIM...
In the mean time - take all the time that you need to get over this, and then start looking for someone new. Fate will bring someone FAR better along :):):):)
2007-09-25 14:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are too young to be in a relationship, no offense. Its clear that there was NO trust at all since you both thought the other was cheating, and after 8 months there should have been some trust.
Just keep your chin up and have fun
2007-09-25 14:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, some guys, when they cheat, accuse you so that they can be the ones getting all huffy. him accusing you has you all "what did I do" rather than "were you cheating or not." It makes you more worried about your faults than his, so my advice would be to let him go....He may just be trying the single life to see who else wants him....not worth it
2007-09-25 14:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by ejc0782 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋