okay so this has been going on for the longest between me and this boy that i like.okay so ive been telling him that i like him and he has been really tripping on some things he's been calling me UGLY and dissing me but he says he's just playing with me.but i feel he's tearing with my heart man because im falling in love so what should i do???
2007-09-25 13:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by [[iM .]] K3LViN'S L4DY ~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all have our " first love" but sometimes our hearts pulls tricks. Remember you beautiful no matter what. If this continues you should just sit down with him tell him " I don't really feel like you should be joking like that it still hurts me and I would like it if you just like I don't make nicer jokes. (well of course say this in like a normal ungushy way) but I think he might like you a guy used to do thins to me and well we dated for a while but anyway. I'm positive your gorgeous and you know what theres plenty in the mine for everybody.
2007-09-25 14:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time, energy, and heart on a guy who has none.This is a guy who---to use your words, is tripping---but because of the perceived power he feels he now has over you because of your feelings for him. There is nothing playful about insults, disrespect, and name-calling just because somebody loves you. He is toying with your feelings and your heart.While we can not choose who we fall in love with, we can control how we let them treat us. I know you are in love with this guy but he has nothing to love about him.Take the difficult step of ending it now before he truly begins to abuse you in other ways.Believe me when I say you will find a super guy who will make you glad you got out when you did; who will love,cherish, respect, and want to be with you since that is what you deserve. Good luck.
2007-09-25 21:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How are you falling in love with someone who does not respect you?
Since this boy can't seem to do so...show yourself some respect and forget about him.
No man or boy deserves a woman or girl he can not respect!
Also an FYI: No one disrespects you continually unless you let them.
2007-09-25 21:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by miss lisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget him. You deserve someone who showers you with compliments and love, not "joking" insults.
2007-09-25 20:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Liralen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hm. you know, it's funny how somebody can break your heart, but you still love them with all the little peices
2007-09-25 20:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Chloe'♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and leave his company ASAP. If he ever liked you, he wouldn't treat you like this.
2007-09-25 20:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by angelica7979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put up with that. It's about self-respect.
dump him.
2007-09-25 20:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by a jaded angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋