I'm 30 lbs overweight and plan to lose.Problem is don't have set date meaning must not be too important at the present. I like me still and don't care what others think.
2007-09-25 13:28:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you when u say I like me still and don't care what others think....thats what it all matters.....Beauty is in the eye of beholder....
2007-09-25 13:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Spencer4love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it wouldn't hurt you or the guy you want to date if you want to drop a few lbs. I bet your a great person but sometimes guys want the goods too. personality is most important but guys think about sex 24/7
2007-09-25 13:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to lose weight before a guy will date you. If your heart is in the right place you can date a guy. Good Luck PEACE OUT
2007-09-25 13:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by KEVIN B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WELL, I THINK SIZE DOES NOT MATTER, ITS THE PERSONALITY, I AM SICK OF SEEING SKELETON PEOPLE, BUT WHEN YOUR OUT TAKE NOTICE OF ALL THE COUPLES YOU SEE, WHEN MOST MEN SETTLE DOWN ITS NOT WITH THE MODEL, ITS WITH THE CUDDLEY GIRL HE LOVES WHO HE KNOWS WILL BE FAITHFUL,
--- AND NO ITS NOT BECAUSE SHE CANT GET ANYONE ELSE --
LOVE IS BLIND, & YOU COULD ACTUALLY FALL IN LOVE WITHOUT EVEN SEEING A PERSON, JUST BY TALKING OR WRITING, SOMETIMES BEING ABLE TO SEE A PERSON YOU WOULD PICK THE WRONG PERSON FOR YOU AS PEOPLE GO OFF LOOKS BUT THE PERSON CAN BE VERY DIFFERENT.
THAT IS WHY EVERYONE AT ONE TIME HAS THOUGHT WHY IS SHE WITH HIM OR HE WITH HER, ITS BECAUSE IT IS LOVE NOT LUST,
2007-09-25 13:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait to start living your life until you lose 30 lbs......do it now. Besides you'll probally have a bigger bosom while you have extra padding. Most guys like that ;)
2007-09-25 13:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No a girl doesn't have to lose weight for a guy to date her. A lot of heavier set girls date. You should lose weight for your health and desire to be healthier.
2007-09-25 13:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Autumn S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are boys that like overweight girls and boys that like skinny and average size ones.
The problem is that there are far fewer ones who like overweight girls.
If you want a bigger selection, you will be stuck dropping the weight.
2007-09-25 13:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should like u for you not ur looks but hun u might wanna lose some wait... i mean... it would be heathy and a better thing to do
2007-09-25 13:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sheree L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of men in the world who are not shallow and judegmental. Fullfigured women need love, too!! Believe me, its out there!! Good luck!
2007-09-25 13:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes and no. im sure someone will date you now but youll get more interest after you lose the weight
2007-09-25 13:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋