I asked a question early and almost everyone said thats sick or HES sick.....
I don't see anything sick about that..I mean if your both adults than it shouldn't matter...
Besides older guys are better than some 18 yrs old acne ridden useless boy who doesn't know what hes doing right?
Gotta be someone who agrees.....
2007-09-25 12:50:58 · 28 answers · asked by Gabby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My dad is 55yrs. old so I do not see him as my father...
2007-09-25 13:12:24 · update #1
Ok, il level, its not sick. The late teens are the (generally accepted) peak in beauty of women, so at any age a man's going to find an attractive 18 year old an interesting venture so to speak...
Thing is, people usually question such age gaps because usually men will be at their peak early/mid twenties, so for a girl at her peak to be with a man past his peak does raise questions. Often they actually rest with the girl; it may be an issue of gold-digging. But when it comes down to it, its perfectly legal, and to be honest, 35 isnt that old, it just looks a lot bigger when next to 18:D
Be who you are, and be happy with that. Dont worry about validating yourself or relationship with others.
All the best!
2007-09-25 12:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because at 18, most people are still not emotionally mature, no matter how much they'd like to think they are. Even though 18 is the age for legality, it still doesn't automatically make a person an adult mentally and psycholigically. Now, I will say that I treat it on a case by case basis. I have seen some people with a 15 to 18 year age difference have successful relationships, but it's the exception rather than the norm. I went out with a 31 year old when I was 18, and thought nothing of it. However, I found out later he had no intentions of a serious relationship with me. I was just a "hot body." That may not always be the case, but it's just too easy for young girls to get taken advantage of by older men.
2007-09-25 13:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by wtam08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man is 35 years old and having sex with an 18 year old female then a man at that age is usually only interested in sex from the female. I do believe that you should find someone closer to your age and he should also. It is not illegal what you are doing but he is a bit too old for you.
2007-09-25 13:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to think it, but to tell everyone about it is a problem. Guys will probably still want to have sex with 18 year old girls at 50, but they shouldn't be going around telling that to everyone. And at 18, like it or not, the girl can give consent. Although why she'd want to beats me.
2016-05-18 21:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just for sex, than yeah it's sick. Yet, if there is a true emotional intimate bond between the two, I have no problem with that. There should not be an age limit on love. There are boundaries you can't cross....like not sleeping with a student, but those are totally different stories.
2007-09-25 12:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by hopelessly romantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. it is a little disturbing because 18yrs old is technically considered adulthood but in truth an 18 year old has so much more maturing to do that relating to a 35 yr old is nearly impossible.
2007-09-25 12:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bet the 35 year old has a wife that he won't leave and the poor, little, homewrecker would eventually be out in the cold. So the little 18 year old is just being used for you guess it, SEX. It is disturbingly hilarious!
2007-09-25 12:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I agree with you; however, BE CAREFUL! Yes, you are an adult, and if two people consent, then go-for-it. But, by all means make sure you like (and know) the guy a lot, because unless you are in it for the same reason, you could get used and get hurt, a lot.
2007-09-25 12:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because girls mature faster than boys it doesn't mean you have to sleep with your father. There are guys out there who are are closer to your age in their 20's maybe if the guy was in his 20's it wouldn't look so bad and why are you broadcasting youself sex life on the interenet? And older guys go after younger girls because younger girls are innocent and they want to corrupt you and turn you into a freak.
2007-09-25 12:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.You have yet to taste all of the great things life has to offer. There is nothing wrong with dating older men, but you can do that when you get, uhm, older. I can agree with you that an 18 year old isn't the sharpest knife in the drawer, they tend have have one thing on their mind, but a 35 year old dating an 18 year old, well, he definitely has only _one_ thing on his mind.
2007-09-25 13:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋