What sort of punishments would you expect to be the outcome?
2007-09-25 12:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
-Isn't his position already a threat without asserting it?
-If a teacher asks out a student, it would be wrong, why not a security guard?
2007-09-25 12:48:28 · update #1
hotmama- a bartender is not a person of authority...
2007-09-25 12:54:55 · update #2
It depends on what the policy is for his agency.
For most police departments, "attempting to convert an on-duty contact into an off duty relationship" is considered conduct unbecoming an officer, and carries a suspension for the first offense and up to dismissal for any subsequent occurrences.
2007-09-25 12:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by CGIV76 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i don't see a problem with it as long as he was respectful and not being obscene.
it depends on the college policy on dating (i.e. student-teacher, etc.) if there are any punishments
should a female bartender be reported for asking out a male customer or female one for that matter?...why does this have to be gender specific?
think about how many people have met their signifacant other while working.
his position isn't a threat...his position is to keep threat away from people like you that think he should be fired or something for simply having interest in a person.
*****would you feel differently if you were the security guard and saw someone you thought was gorgeous (not saying you're gorgeous, just assuming this guy has good taste) and you asked him out?
what could this "person of authority" do to do to you to threaten you? was he even rude about it? or did he just ask you and accept your answer for what it was? look if he was using his position to try to intimidate you then by all means report him. but if he was nice and simply asked a question and then went on with his day, leave the poor man alone...he's already been rejected.(i'm assuming you declined based on your posting a question about what his punishment should be)
2007-09-25 12:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by hotmama913 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As others said, as long as he is not using his position to force her into dating him, there's nothing wrong with it. Sounds like you have something against this security guard, or this female student. Morally there is nothing wrong with it. But some companies or employers don't allow personal business while on duty. Punishments really depends on the guards history in that position. They might just bring it to his attention and tell him to settle down. If he has a history of breaking rules they might decide to let him go. If I were you I think I would just keep my nose out of what doesn't concern me.
2007-09-25 13:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by vago 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is that wrong?
Should he pass up the opportunity to meet his potential life-partner?
If you're the student, and not interested, say "I'm flattered but no thank you."
Though, by your question, you might just want to tell him to F off.
*** though any adults should be able to have a civil proposition ... There is some sort of justification for a rule about professors, at least a security guard doesn't have your GPA to hold over your head
2007-09-25 12:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did say college didnt you. Not if the female is 18. Ask yourself what the penalties are for making a false report and being a petty busy body.
2007-09-25 13:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by MyMysteryId 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as long as he isnt threatening you or using his position to force you to then it's fine... so grow up ? okay?
the reason is if a teacher is teching you and asks you out you coudl fel your grade could be affected a security guard is not in control of your marks grades or anything of the such.. they ae jus a security guard... golly
2007-09-25 12:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by iheartyasure.. 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
By the time you get to college, you may be presumed to be
somewhat adult.
Act it. This can't be the first time she was asked out, nor the first date for him...
Everyone needs a social life. He asks, she accepts or declines - end of story.
2007-09-26 04:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by sirbobby98121 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are an adult-- No. He his asking for a date the way any adult would no matter what the job title. Students and teachers if adults are also viewed differently when they are both adults.
2007-09-25 12:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he isn't using his position to force anything on her, it shouldn't matter.
2007-09-25 12:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would he be reported? For doing what?
If it is wrong to do that what country do you live in?
2007-09-25 12:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋