well...
this guy i know,m but am not close to has been acting strange toward me and some of my friends
toward me;;
he has began chatting with his friends about me
he has began to look at me, and smile during class
he has tried to get people to get me to talk to him
to my friends;;
being nicer and more obvious as a person to them
he has done this over and over
and it gets confusing...
even more since i just moved to the from a small town and stuff like this didn't happen much in the small town i sorta, kinda grew up in...
so help me..
is this normal?
&&
what does it mean?
2007-09-25 09:41:35 · 14 answers · asked by sammy the panda cupcake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, i thought i was the only one who went through this growing up a few years back. I have to admit first and for most that this guy likes you and that the ways he's doing things are normal signs of that. It is very normal for guys to behave like that. I know back in 1999 was when i first had my experiences and since i was only 14, i didn't know how to react back and was totally confused myself. It felt very much like there was no way out of it and none of my friends were of any help at all at tackling this. He very much did the same things you described to have happened to you and even wrote a letter to the student aditor under an anonymous name indicating his feelings and how he was a chiken about approaching me and was afraid that i would reject him and humiliate him by telling everyone -although they already knew how he felt (even the treachers).
To make a long story short, it lasted through out our grade nine and i thought it would be the last i would see him. Turns out he found out where i was going to attend my high school (i already knew where he was going) and transferred there. I actually started to have feels for this guy too since i came from a borken strict home and he seemed to be the only one who ever cared for me and actually showed it.
I however, had a very controlling mom who never appreicated anything good happening for me, not only did she reject the idea of me having any boyfriends, she actually didn't agree with the whole interracial relationship thing -thanks to my step dad. The older i grew, the more controlling they became even forcing me to come home half hour past school that was 45 min away.
Mainwhile our feelings grew for each other. By the end of my grade tweleve, my parents made us move away from the province that we were living in and i left without saying goodbye and the worst part of it all was that he was my first love. I don't think, i'll ever forget him but i have to say i learnt a great deal about life from all the situations that took place. I do regret not taking a chance with him and from time to time i wonder what it would have been like if i was with him.
2007-09-25 11:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by bEiNg DiScIpLiNeD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is showing all the signs that he likes you but is afraid to approach you out of fear of rejection. That's why he's telling other people to try to get you to talk to him.
You might try asking him, why he is talking about you behind your back and see how he responds. If it's true that he likes you and wants to go out with you, and you don't want to hurt his feelings, just tell him that he really isn't your type and that he could find another girl who is. On the other hand, if you want to get to know him a little better, have some conversations with him, and you should know what kind of guy he is and if you want to pursue anything further or tell him that he's interesting, but just not your kind.
2007-09-25 09:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what all that means, you're so not ready for boys yet. You have a lot of growing up and maturing to do. So do that 1st.
2007-09-25 09:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sammy"s got a boyfried, Sammy"s got a boyfriend ! Relax sweety !
2007-09-25 09:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-25 09:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if i had to take a wild guess, it seems as though he has an interest in you, you should counter act if you like him
2007-09-25 09:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you but he is to shy to come up too you.
2007-09-25 09:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie he likes you
2007-09-25 09:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"It means, he's already started getting on your nerves."
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2007-09-25 09:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Arkansas Mohawk Indian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means he wants to have a baby with you.
2007-09-25 09:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Dax-A-Lish 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋