should I trust him with them? He also said that he hasn't done anything with either one of them. I'm just tired of being hurt by boys who calls themselves men. HELP!
2007-09-25 09:26:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you already do not trust him. The battle is already lost whether it is now, or 6 months form now.
2007-09-25 09:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't done anything wrong before and he hasn't been untruthful to you, then you should give him a chance. If he's that really sweet guy and you like him a lot, then you probably have nothing to worry about. However, if you do get suspicious, you should confront him about it, but not in a mean way. (But this is only if you absolutely suspect something major.) If you ever find out for sure that something is going on between him and the girls, then you should break up with him immediately. You can't take that from a man. Let him know that he had his chance. =]
2007-09-25 16:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Skater_Gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel with this matter I had the same problem in my life once upon a time. For one as women we don't trust another woman around our man because women are trifling as hell. But you have to trust your man and that is easier said then done but true. But keep your eyes open and never sleep on those two chics for one second cause anything is possible. In your case I just pray for the best turn out and hope that you have a good man. Good Luck
2007-09-25 16:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't given you a reason yet to not trust him, than go ahead, but ofcoarse just be cautious. Its hard to date a guy who's friends are females as well. Give it a chance and you won't have to ask this question again. You don't want to miss a chance on a guy if it could really work out. Besides you're dating him, not his friends. Just impress this guy with your best and in time he will want to spend most of his time with you.
2007-09-25 16:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Angela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he hasn't done anything with them, they are his friends, and will be around him, and if you don't like them, then you'll either have to get over that or end up dumping him because he doesn't want to give up any friends any more than you would. if you can't stand his friends, it's a good chance that when you get to know him, you won't like him either. and there's a good chance that you will resent him for not giving up his friends for you.
2007-09-25 16:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realtionships are built on trust. If it isn't there then you don't have anything. You shouldn't punish him for other mens' mistakes. If your gut is telling you that he isn't trustworthy then dump his butt and find someone else who is. If you are just being jealous than that is something you will need to work on, don't you think.
2007-09-25 16:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should trust him because he hasn't given you reason not to and as far as the females...ignore them, they aren't the ones you should be liking.
and if he gives you a reason to not trust him then bounce on his *** because trust is hard to get back!
2007-09-25 16:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys aren't men... so get a grip!
we all have the freedom to be friends with whomever we want, so if you can't handle the fact that this guy has two female friends, move on.
2007-09-25 16:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him not his friends and if you really liked him you'd go for it
2007-09-25 16:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋