i've prayed so much to conceive, i've tried everything and nothing time after time and my lil sis (who is 19) just found out today she is five weeks, i felt like committing suicide at that moment, i cried my whole way home and had this anger for the world like i wanted to kill everyone but i couldnt so this isnt a question more like just asking everyone to pray for me in some form or the other
thank u
2007-09-25 09:02:58 · 16 answers · asked by Fee Fee 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Instead of praying, have you perhaps tried having sex? I've heard that works.
If so, try seeing a doctor instead of a made-up sky spirit. That should also help.
2007-09-25 09:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
You will be OK. It's possible that G-d does not think you're ready for this just yet. Keep praying, trying and relax... This is in G-d's hands if and when it's meant to happen it will. If you calm down about this, it will be much easier and you may just be able to get pregnant easier. Try doing some charity work or just visit some prayer websites and pray for others in need. I find that helps me see things in a different light and in turn helps me see the path to solving life's problems. It may also be time to seek help from a medical professional and look around at fertility websites for tips on conceiving. I will however add you to my list of daily prayers. G-d Bless.
2007-09-25 16:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a chance that it is a problem with your husband, not you. This is the case with approximately 40% of cases where a couple has trouble conceiving. You both need to talk with a doctor and see if you can figure out what the problem is. If the problem is him, you can look into artificial insemination. Otherwise, adoption is an option and its also a great thing to do for the community.
2007-09-25 16:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by lindsey p 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I totally know what you are going through. While we were enduring infertility, my husband's sister got pregnant TWICE, once at 16 and once at 18. She got married between there and divorced shortly after the second baby was born. Whom she promptly ignored, going out to party with friends while my in-laws took care of the kids.
I wanted to shake her, to cry, to throw things, to DEMAND justice.
And you know what? Sometimes there isn't justice in this world. Sometimes things are horribly, horribly, HORRIBLY unfair.
So what I learned to do is turn my sufferings over to God and to beg Him to make something good come out of it. All the pain and all the tears continued for some time until we were able to become parents, but I was sincere in my wish that God use this "evil" for good, and it helped.
I offer to you a poem I wrote during those hard years:
The cup He hands me is bitter
And yet I must drink my fill
For my life is mine no longer
I bow unto His will
I might pray and cry for rescue
I might weep till my tears are spent
But for His sake is my body broken
I, for His Glory, am rent.
2007-09-25 16:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by sparki777 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nature knows what it's doing. Let it work on its own schedule.
You have plenty of time. Don't let it get you down.
BTW Stressing out about it only throws off your cycle, so just let it come naturally. Otherwise, I'm sure you would be a wonderful candidate for adoption.
2007-09-25 16:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not a spiritual problem but a biological one. Like the others have said, consult a doctor.
2007-09-25 16:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by khard 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
I don't know and I understand how you feel.Every child is a special creation of God.God decided the birth of every child.He choose the parents.In reality God decides whether we are going to have children and how many.Destiny is in God's hands .We can not change it or prevent it.
2007-09-25 16:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by Don Verto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am deeply sorry for your situation. Please be patient with God. It's hard for someone to say to you that God is in control when you've praid so hard. Please keep in mind Sara, Hannah, Elizableth, and the many others in the Bible who were faithful even through this depressing struggle. I will definately pray for you. I don't know what God has for you, but please remember that he is in control. Feel free to contact me anytime you need prayer for anything. God bless
2007-09-25 16:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by Matthew P (SL) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Praying is not the way to go,seek advice from your MD.
2007-09-25 16:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by solara 437 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you thought about consulting a doctor and having a fertility test done? There could be something medically wrong with you....
2007-09-25 16:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋