I believe in the whole live life with no regrets, but I did something and I feel raelly bad about it. My friend was trying to set me up with a guy, so this guy text me for like 4 hours and he sounded awesome, but then he stared to act perveerted a little bit but I was like whatever maybe he is just bein a guy ya know. So then he called me and this is when I did something I regret, we talked really dirty and said really nasty things, and I said I would suck his dick and stuff, but the truth is I'm a virgin and a christian devoted to god. Don't get me wrong, I still like this kid because when he wan't being perverted he was being awesome, but after I got off the phone with him at 2:30 in the morning I cryed and prayed because I felt like I really let God Down. What can I do to get god to forrgive my sin for acting like this and also what if that kid does try to have sex with me? What do I do? and I'm only 15, thanx sooo much.
2007-09-25 07:56:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well if you have already repented the forgiveness is there and you have to forgive yourself.
God knows the intent of your heart so don't beat yourself up about it.
You have to let the shame and guilt of it go or that will over take your mind and really haven't forgave your self. Learn from this trust me there is always worse things.
Don't get yourself in that situation again. You have to have self-control in this life sweetheart.
There are plenty of things to get caught up in be strong in your foundation get with the Bible more.
"Don't be comformed to this World but be transformed by the renewing your mind in His Word."
You'll be in my prayers.
† EveryDay Prayer Warrior †
2007-09-25 08:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie....you are not the only one that has been in that situation. The fact that you recognize this as a problem is a BIG PLUS for you! God has forgiven you already since you repented and confessed this to Him. He promises to do that in 1 John 1:9. Now the problem is what will happen when you see this boy next? I would suggest you do not date him because he has a mindset about you already. You will prevent trouble that way. However, if you should see him then tell him how this affected you first thing. And don't let yourself be in the position to compromise. Make sure you are in a public place. You are young and learning....some of us older ones don't have it right yet either. It sounds like your relationship with God is important to you. Listen to that little voice that makes you feel guilty...that is the Holy Spirit talking to you. I will pray that you will obey God and stay pure and true to Him. Thank you for sharing on here as I am sure this will help someone else also.
† On-call Prayer Warrior †
2007-09-26 00:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by bethy4jesus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a typical guy sounds like....how do I know...I was that guy. Most guys can play a very convincing part of being a good guy. Guys and girls operate in very different ways(I'm sure you have figured this out by now) guys test their limits to see how far they can go without being rejected, they try to sneak in to your comfort zone then catch you when you are weak. Trust me I know. Also when a guy sees you in a sexual way that is the way he sees you and thinks of you for a long time. That's why its very dangerous to flirt with guys like that. What you did was wrong, no doubt about that. Did God forgive you, of course he did. There is a great book that I want to suggest to you. "Every Young Woman's Battle" its all about purity and relationships. You can get it from and Christian bookstore. It defines rules that we have neglected to set for a long time. The problem usually is not the girl, the problem is us boys. We get wound up very easily then we use that to get what we want by pressure and playing nice and waiting until the girl is weak. Small things can set off a guy. That book covers things that girls are really naive about.
God Bless
2007-09-27 10:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of these days, I suppose my niece, or even a daughter may be asking me something like this.
I read your question, and I know you're feeling wrong, and that you feel as if you've let God down. Lil' one..God is still there with you. You're heart has cried to Him, and most important..you're wanting to reconcile your relationship with God.
Now..about the boy...you never did tell us how old he was...only that the two of you were on the phone until 230 in the morn. That's not what I want to talk about...
... what I want you to remember...is the boy was awesome in the beginning...and eventually was able to talk you into saying something you later came to regret. Pretty sure if you were asked would you have said that two hours before meeting him, you would have said no....
...but now...what happens next? I know the boy sounds awesome...but now his motor has been kicked into the next gear...talking was one thing...in his mind, I'm sure he's already fantasizing about "gotta meet this girl!"...
...which is why I'd ask you to not meet him. In four hours he was able to move you to an area you weren't comfortable. And as you ask...what if he does "try"...lil one...when one person tries and the other isn't willing..there's a criminal code for that... and if you're feeling this bad about talking about it...imagine how devestated you will feel if he is able to talk you into going even farther....
... please...as a father... I'd ask you to be safe...and let this one go.
† Traveling Prayer Warrior †
2007-09-25 10:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you’re Christian praying and asking Jesus for forgiveness is all you need to do as far as G-d is concerned. If you are committed to waiting, that’s great! Just remember that this kind of thing is bound to happen all your life, you will always make mistakes and feel as though you let yourself and G-d down. It’s ok, just ask for forgiveness, forgive yourself and move on and always try to do your best. You should also talk to this boy, tell him that you like him but that you can’t be involved in a sexual relationship right now. If he’s a true friend he’ll want to keep talking to you. If he does have an interest in you sexually (he probably does) he may try to pressure you or talk to you more about it. You’ll be dealing with that for a lot of your life, so just stick to your guns. ;)
2007-09-25 08:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know that you have no intention of doing the things you said. Its hard dealing with the consequences of our own stupid actions sometimes but its necessary. Maybe you'll think about it next time.
2007-09-25 08:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Keltasia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke?
god says dont be such a prk teaser and dont do things if it makes you that uncomfortable. Tell a teacher if he carries on harassing you you obviously can't handle the situation.
2007-09-25 08:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Geisha VT poser 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just forget it.
2007-09-25 08:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋