my sisters son is married. he and his wife had a little girl. they sent picturs to everyone but his mother. why not his mother something about the past??they did not send picture to her .my daughter sent a picture to his mother on her cell phone so she would have a picture. this was in jan.. well his brothers wife was using her mothers phone and found the picture. now he calls me and says he can not trust her and dont want my daughter around the baby. well my mother has sent pictures to her as well but he dont know this. my question is what i should do??? his wife has something to do with this problem.shoould i tell him to let it go, grow up or what... thanks for your time
2007-09-25 04:39:15 · 10 answers · asked by jboyd5026 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell your daughter that she shouldn't have done that....it depends tho, how old is she?...But i think he should just move one & forgive....it's just a picture for goodness sakes!!!.....he needs to MAN the HECK up and move on.....tell him to stop being such a baby about it.
2007-09-25 04:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand why your daughter did it. However, I think both of you should leave those nuts alone. Can't trust her around the baby? That's nonsense. They are only going to hurt the child because their immaturity is going make things really confusing for him or her. Yes, tell him to let it go. He only has one mother but other women come and go. Respect for family is very, very important. What he is doing is setting himself up for failure in his marriage.
2007-09-25 05:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your family should not have gotten involved. You family should have respected his wishes and not provided the picture. They can't be trusted as far as I'm concerned. How can he be sure that you aren't going to let her see the baby if they leave her in your care? This fight is not yours it's theirs....stay out of it. You are going to jeopardize your relationship with them also if you keep butting in.
2007-09-25 05:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have him over for coffee and cake, and try to have a grown up conversation with him. Try to get to the bottom of this strange situation. There may be a reason for it. Whatever you do don't try and come between him and his wife. If you do this you may lose your brother.
2007-09-25 04:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by tictak kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to talk to his mother...i mean i'm sure whatever problem the have can be settled out and worked out...plus they're both adults i'm sure they can reason with each other
2007-09-25 04:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Buttercup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he should grow-up & after all shes his mother
2007-09-25 04:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a sim. prob. going on for years...living my life and getting along just fine....others have sent me pics later...no big deal...they can have their selves...lol...i was happy without , and i still can be happy without...woopie crap! the sun will come out tomarrow, tomarrow........lol.....bye....
2007-09-25 05:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. "Diamond" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe let them solve their own problems?
be supportive of your sister, if you like.
families are strange, aren't they?
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2007-09-25 05:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya tell him to grow up
2007-09-25 04:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by danity0414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some thing is really wrong with your family i am sorry
2007-09-25 05:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by pappu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋