well i did something really bad,to make the story short i was talkin to lesbians and sayin nasty things to them.and one day my sister found out i was doing that and she told my dad and my dad was talkin to me about and while he was doin that i was crying because im sooo confused and hurt about everything and i dont know what to do.and my sisters and dad are the last people i wanna hurt and it hurts me to hurt them because i love them very much.and i just dont know what to do.and my dad of course dos'int hate me because he understands what im going through and my sister i have'int talked to her since last saturday and im really scared and sad.about everything and idk if my sister hate me or love me.and only 2of my sisters know about what i did.im really confused.i just dont know what to do.can yall help me?????and im not a les i was just playin with the other lesbians.
2007-09-25 04:38:51 · 6 answers · asked by kea234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Being a lesbian isn't a bad thing so why do you think it is? I am but I won't judge you for anything you think because its your chose to think anyway you want to. I don't think they hate you but have you tried thinking they could be disappointed in you? For judging people and for saying things to someone when you have no right. I don't talk to my brother alot because he is a big time church goer but I still love him. If you want to live with a closed mind then remember that it will come with closed doors. You could be leaving a good friendship behind by thinking that Way. You don't have to be gay to have gay friends. You could just be a friend. You don't have to hate to dislike. I dislike the fact that you were saying things that I don't agree with but I don't hate you because you are human and its your right to have your own feelings. If you don't feel that what we or anyone does is right you don't have to say anything you could just walk away. If only closed minds came with closed mouths.
2007-09-25 04:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to rectify your mistake, don't do what you've done again. Live a normal life and nobody will judge you for what you are doing as long as what you are doing is the right thing. If you have disappointed your sisters, tell them you're sorry. Things be okay if you change your ways.
2007-09-25 04:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Reycen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are, but you sound very young. Perhaps you should concentrate on your school work and homework and get yourself a hobby to keep yourself busy instead of getting involved in nonsense like this. You can see where it landed you. Just forget about it and move forward and do something useful with your life.
2007-09-25 04:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe your family is trying to let you know that it's better to live and let live, than to be prejudiced and mean to others?
I dont think people can help it if they are gay or lesbian, really. And they don't deserve ridicule. Same with people who aren't the same color as we are... they are still human beings with FEELINGS... and it's not a very nice thing to hurt others.
We all have to learn lessons during our lifetimes, hon. I have had to learn many. and i've made my share of mistakes.
Tell your sister you love her.
hugs
2007-09-25 05:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your dad that your are really sorry for what you did and i'm sure he will forgive you. As for your sister i'm sure she don't hate you she just wanted to blab something. My sister used to do that all the time just tell her that what you do is your own business and none of hers. She needs to stop going into your life and stick to her own. Good luck and i'm sorry for your hard time
2007-09-25 05:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by moringurl20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she needs to mind her own business
2007-09-25 04:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by danity0414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋