2007-09-25 03:59:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
What will happen to you?
You never stated WHY you hate them.
But unless they are physically, verbally or emotionally abusing you, here is what will happen:
First, you will never be able to "hear" them. You will never learn from them, either by things they have experienced, or by what they have learned from others to pass on.
You will never respect them, and ultimately, if you can't respect others, you will eventually learn to not respect yourself, either, if you haven't reached that stage yet.
Third, you will "burn bridges" that you will regret later on in life when you really wish you could talk with them.
Right now, (from your own perspective), they don't know anything. When you get older, you'll be amazed at how much they have (apparently) learned.
Finally, hate causes cancer and other debilitating physical symptoms. Not in the person being hated, but in the person doing the hating. Maybe not now, but it begins now.
And once you've learned to hate, it makes it nearly impossible to ever learn to love.
2007-09-25 04:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by no1home2day 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
According to Christianity, you will be taken to the city gates and stoned to death.
I do not know. Why do you hate your parents? If they beat you to sleep every night then call social services, if it because they only bought you the 2GB iPod, rather than the 80 GB video iPod, then grow up and get over it.
I predict that you will either leave your parent's house as soon as possible, or that you will grow up and get over it.
There is no Sky Pixie out there to judge you, only you.
I would say that hate is a very destructive emotion. I would spend some time thinking about whether you really do hate your parents, or if they are very frustrating. If nothing else it will help you move on with your life in a more constructive way.
2007-09-25 11:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Simon T 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone goes through times when they hate their parents.
What will happen to you is when you become a parent, you will have a better understanding of why your parents treated you the way they do now.
Right now my daughter hates me because I make her go to bed at 8:30. (she is 4) She needs her sleep to function at school and so she isn't cranky through out the day.
My mother drives me crazy. She is up my butt all the time and I don't even live with her anymore.
2007-09-25 11:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they abuse you you can report this. You don't hate your parents. You are just growing and maybe don't like the rules set down for you. Nothing bad will happen to you. When you get older you will realize how smart your parents are. This happens to all of us. Think about the issues not the hate you think you feel.
2007-09-25 11:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by plyjanney 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing but you'll need to change your name is you're going to decide to hate them. J'adore doesn't really match the situation.
Also, unless you have abusive parents what reason is there to hate them. You might disagree at this point in your life but it's better to make peace. I grew up with an emotionally abusive mother but I made peace with it a few years ago and I'm very happy I did. I can enjoy her while she's still here.
2007-09-25 11:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Yogini 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pro 19:26
He that wasteth [his] father, [and] chaseth away [his] mother, [is] a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.
Pro 20:20
Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness
Pro 23:22
Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old
Im sure u have your own self evaluated reason, but they r all u have and the only parents that GOD will ever give u! Make them proud in spite of how u feel. If u have been hurt by them-4give and talk 2 them! Embrace them...ur only hurting the and becoming cold, bitter and miserable on the inside
2007-09-25 11:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by created2worship12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing!..Except you are missing out on something very important.
You will never receive any Love better than theirs and no one will cherish you like they do.
You know why?....Well you are their precious child and they will go to any length to give you the very best in life...even if it means you being hurt! But in the long run you will be thankfull to them for what they have done!
You are so luky that you still have both parents...Think of the kids like you who dont have their parents anymore or kids that come from a broken family..
I consider yourself very lucky!
2007-09-25 11:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by redzonecash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing will happen, but one day you will realize that your parents are not that bad, unless you really have parents that are abusive.
Once you are a parents your eyes and mentality will see differently,,,it is a big circle,,we get to be a parent one day
2007-09-25 11:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by atinap 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
peace be upon you
all religions say that you will not see the paradise if you treatd with them badly.
the person who deal badly with his parents who brought him and felt the pain for him to relax , is away from people trust.(none can trust him)
may your parents did mistakes but they are humans and all humans do mistakes, you should forgive them and try to correct their mistakes and talk to them in it.
if you have no parents ,you will be alone , imagine if you born without them , a child in the street, what would have you been now?may be a theif .
you will not feel this really , till you become a father.
2007-09-25 11:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by rona 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone hates their parents at some point in time. It usually happens when you are a teenager. You usually outgrow it when you have your first child.
2007-09-25 11:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋