It seemed like it went very well. He seemed to be very into me. He kept constantly trying to kiss me. I did kiss him and it was lovely however it seemed like all he wanted to do was makeout. I didn't let it go any further than a kiss. He is a very handsome guy who plays ball for a major university. He is 23 and I am 26. I don't consider myself to be too attractive but he kept pursuing me until I agreed to go on a date with me. We ended up just sitting in the car talking for two hours but, he seemed as if I wasn't making out with him then he didn't want me around. A couple of times I told him I was leaving but, he kept telling me not to leave. ( we sat outside his house but he never invited me in) It was weird he kept going inside telling me had to do something then he would come back and get in the car again but, then he didn't want to go anywhere else. I emailed him telling him that the night was the weirdest night of my life. He simply replied by saying.
2007-09-23 19:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He replied by saying ''Yeah there was a lot of crazy **** going on" That was it no explanation. I don't want to call him
2007-09-23 19:38:21 · update #1
He's mad because you were smart enough to not let him take advantage of you.
2007-09-23 19:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if you two weren't clear on what exactly was going on. I'm a guy and if i just want action from a girl yeah it goes somewhat like that I try to hook up with her all night and i don't want her to leave etc. He might have wanted something more out of this hook up or whatever you two were doing but you saying that it was the weirdest night of your life when you emailed him probably made him think, "wow did i make it really that weird for her..." guys are sensitive too and we are very proud so a blow like that even though you were trying to just discuss what happened you started in a wrong way. Email him and if you really had fun say that was fun just wish it went differently etc if you want to pursue something with him you know what I mean? maybe even suggest meeting up again but seriously be clear if you don't just want a lame hook up and you want something more....Don't just let him assume you're booty call:).Hope that helps
2007-09-24 02:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him and think you can develop something with him you can call him and let him know, at least that way he knows where he is at with you. But if you dont want to do that then you have no choice but to wait. And waiting can lead to alot of possibilities he could be meeting someone by now, or get back together with someone he was with before. THe more you wait the more someone else has an opportunity to take him away from you. But based on the explenation it doesnt seem like he is taking you too seriously so he is not really worth it to think about too much if he only wants to make our and doesnt have the decentcy to call you back, so my advice to you is forget him and go out and meet someone else that really cares about you and takes the time to get to know you, and if he finally calls you later on, you make it sound like your life is busy and dont have time and see how he feels and see what he will do to make things better which better be something better then the first date.
2007-09-24 03:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jimsenite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok... seriously I know exactly what is going on in this guys head. He is not looking for any kind of relationship other than a physical one. All he wants is to get some. I say stay away from this guy.. he is trouble. I think you deserve a lot better than that.
2007-09-24 02:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by spitfiremk2497 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All this type of man wants is sex. He's not interested in you as woman or even a person. Handsome jocks are often like that. Forget him. He's no good...
2007-09-24 02:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He want a quick piece of booty. And since you didn't want to be that easy score, he's lost interest and moved on to the next prey. Consider yourself lucky.
2007-09-24 03:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by JG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to be alone or he has a lot of secrets. serioursly when people have a lot of secrets they want to be alone.just tell him that if you have a secret just tell him that its okay whatever he is hiding that your not going to get angry or show any feelings that will hurt him.if he says something you really don't like calm down and don't get angry at him
2007-09-24 02:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by jsport912 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here are your key statements:
"He is a very handsome guy who plays ball for a major university."
" don't consider myself to be too attractive"
you will never hear from him again, just be happy he didn't "kobe" you.
2007-09-24 02:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he felt that you wernt comfortable or you had a crappy time and he is ashamed or was a little tipsy therefore saying that or that he didn't get any booty.
2007-09-24 02:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a player and some players expect sex the first date and if you dont..... they got other girls or move on past you as not to waste any more time or money...I know ...I was a player.
2007-09-24 02:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋