about 2 weeks ago this guy in my class kept flirting with me then he sat next to me,and looking back on it now i didnt really do much when he was flirting with me.then days later he kept ignoring me,but a few days ago he kept looking at me from across the room and 2 days ago my eyes went watery in class and my friends thought i was crying but i said i wasent, then he goes ok she needs her space people,then 2 mins later and says in a sweet voice close to me,whats wrong? and i was like ohh nothing my eyes just went wartery and he was like ohh are you sure you can tell me and i said ohh no its nothing.and i know he thinks im pretty,and today during art he came up to me at my table and said do u know where the red paint is,and clearly there was nothing on my desk lol,and when i talk to him i really want to make eye contact and when i do i hold it for about 4 seconds then stop.do u think if i started to try and flirt he would do anything?can you give me tips on how to flirt with this guy?
2007-09-23 19:25:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes if you sterted to flirt he would do something... a LOT actually.
And i cant really teach you to flirt, not even if i was a girl i could. For some general pointers, well: be plalyful, look at him more than 4 seconds at a time, and laugh at his jokes, even if they are stupid.
2007-09-23 19:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by omarelmaestro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute--this is an after school special in the making--stop the kid stuff and talk to him--find time to go for coffee and sit and talk about art or anything else you would like to talk about. If he can't get past those stupid watery eyes--move on---find out what he likes and tell him what you like--maybe you can do some stuff together---Flirting??? Where did that crap start?? He either is man enough to talk to you or he isn't. You can wait forever to make childish gestures or you can be mature and adult and TALK to him--you have school and home stufff--finding time to sit and talk or eventually date is going to be tough. YOU MAY NOT EVEN LIKE HIM AFTER ALL THIS--so stop wasting precious time.Relax, smile and good luck.
2007-09-24 04:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, be yourself & stay cool. Ask him if he has time during lunch break & go with him. Be with him when you can but don't overdo it.
The best way to flirt is to do it subtly. Find out what he likes or needs & give it to him bit by bit.
2007-09-24 02:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever u do dont ignore him!!!!
You'd b giving out the wrong message and he'll go for sum1 else. Just talk to him first and see where things go from there. Ask him to go for a movie or wait till he asks u
2007-09-24 02:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Live As A Legend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. lucky u. seems to me that he does likes u.. hehe... tips on flirting.. let's c... flash him a big smile.. make sure it doesnt look fake. i doubt it will look fake tho cos u do like this guy.. as i can see. lol.
what else... i m not too good in flirting.. most of the time i just try to be myself. hehe.. all the best to ya.. hopefully you will both be a couple.
2007-09-24 02:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make lots of eye contact. and smile when you do!! thats important. here is the secret to let a guy know you like them.. so pay attention!!
ok. so make eye contact. when you do. smile. *WARNING*- dont give him this Huge happy smile with all your teeth showing. these big smiles means "friendship" to a guy. if you want more, then this is the wrong thing to do. you need to give him a "soft" smile. one that is slow, and meaningful. one that seems to put serenity on your face. a calm, peaceful look. one that says, you make me happy.
its this calm, caring, sweet smile and eye lock that tells a guy you care.
gl.
2007-09-24 02:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by john doe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep the eye contact and smile a lot. Use body language like putting back your hair, etc...
2007-09-24 02:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother with flirting?
Talk to him like a friend. You need to get to know someone first before you can trust him.
2007-09-24 02:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*rubs eyes*
*sighs*
Mmm, tips on flirting. I don't know. Smile a lot. Do i think he will do anything if you started to flirt? Well, try. You never know till you try.
2007-09-24 02:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be sweet and smile at him, and try to find reasons to touch him, such as handing him a pen and be sure to touch his fingers for a few seconds..
2007-09-24 02:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋