My interests are too.... "uncommon," I should say, for anyone to find me interesting. My interests must be too "nerdy" or "manly" for a woman to understand.. I dunno..
2007-09-23 19:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by King_aaron 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but I find it quite vain just to like something for the sake of just finding a girl, especially if I'm not interested in it in the least.
2007-09-23 19:28:11 · update #1
You can "be yourself", I think you should. However, why would anyone want to be your friend if they have nothing to share with you? Thats why you have to pick up things women like. The best will be actually liking what women like. That way you can do things with a woman and enjoy it as well. DONT fake some common interests to get women, you will not enjoy. But definitely expand your horizon. You wouldn't go out with a girl who goes shopping and gets her hair done all day would you?
2007-09-23 19:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by hockeyfreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expand your horizons and hang other places where the people are a bit more like you.It's nice to share some things but you should have your own interests as part of your own life. Try going for girls in normal ways--don't worry about interests in common--try finding what she likes and do some stuff with her--you might learn something. Sharing is a big part of a successful relationship.
2007-09-24 02:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM...unless your interests involve collecting ears in a bucket, there is surely a few people out there who would have the same interests as you.
What are these uncommon or nerdy interests?
2007-09-24 02:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by MonkeyMama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and see if you can find similar interest in her. Life is a 2 way street. You might find it easier to find a girl from this perspective.But always keep on trying.
2007-09-24 02:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by SILVER BACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about finding a guy. Stop looking and do what you like someone will come along that does like what you do. There are hundreds of people that like the same stuff as you. Check it out.
2007-09-24 02:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by dreamofjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women just don't understand guys flat out. Just be yourself, and if she thinks you're weird for you personality, move on. You might that one girl who loves your nerdy and manly self.
2007-09-24 02:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by DragonLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date yourself or realize that no two people are exactly the same and the differences are what make us interesting and lovable sometimes.
2007-09-24 02:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by JG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are they? Join a club that pertains to your interest. You will find girls there that will understand you.
2007-09-24 02:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking!
2007-09-24 02:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kaile's Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change and like the things they do. and only focus on what you do have in common. [that's one from Donald Trump for you]
2007-09-24 02:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋