I'm currently living in the interior of Alaska and my girlfriend back in California wants us to go skiing at Sugar bowl when I come home for Christmas.
Here's the problem, I ******* hate skiing and the last place I want to be in some place where there's snow. I'm on vacation, where I'm living is really ******* cold. No more ******* snow.
She was like, "Ok, you can go do what you want to do and I'm going skiing," which didn't sound like such a bad idea, but she sounded kind of mad because I think she wanted me to go with her. Precious moments on the bunny slope and flirting sounds real cute and ****, but I ******* hate skiing. And the only thing to do there is skiing, snowboarding, and toobing. I don't want to do any of it. No more ******* snow.
Any suggestions, folks?
2007-09-23 19:14:17 · 9 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her to understand that you will be there just to visit and would like to do something different. she has plenty of time to go another time with friends and ski or something. offer to do something else that's fun. if she doesn't understand then that's kinda messed up you guys should be able to compromise.
2007-09-23 19:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by justabitbitter147 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise. She needs to understand you live in **** Alaska and the last thing you want to do is go skiing. Tell her but kindly. Girls are emotional creatures. :P
Maybe a compromise could be you do your thing, she does hers and after your both finished meet up in the middle, go an a really hot date, or rent a hotel room, ect.
She shouldn't be mad that you don't want to go skiing. It seems like she just wants to spend time with her. So offer an idea where she can get your full attention and I think she wouldn't be so frustrated that you don;t want to ski with her.
Maybe go to Reno and rent a hotel or gamble. i dunno.
2007-09-24 02:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by fleur_loser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take turns going to places that she like, then places that you like. If you have to, split the vacation into two mini vacations. Tell her that if she will go somewhere warm with you, you will suffer through the skiing for a few days.
2007-09-24 02:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly boy, don't you know yet that you need to compromise.
Go with her and sit in the chalet by the fire.
When she is done skiing then she will come in to get warmed up by you!
Don't miss out on time with her over this reason. Besides, no one forced you to work in Alaska, right?
Don't take it out on her.
Bundle up!
2007-09-24 02:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise.... ski on water.
2007-09-24 02:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her then. if she is so unconsiderate that u live in ****** cold. i also live in ******cold, and hate skiing, so i knwo how u feel. so take it frommy heart - just dump her and find someone who will take care of u and won't be an egoist
2007-09-24 02:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by yeahright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im sorry
try to explain to her really nicely?
i dont know i would understand
2007-09-24 02:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by Eliana Lombay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do ur own thing enjoy ur holidays with or without her. sure u have friends.
2007-09-24 02:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like to go with her. Tell her driectly.
2007-09-24 02:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by ROSITA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋