It seems the past while any guy I have met turns out to be a loser, either narrcasitic, controlling, or just a player. How do I stop this bad cycle? My faith in finding a good, honest man is fading fast. I'm ready to give up on the whole dating scene!
2007-09-23 18:56:42 · 11 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep looking. We do exist, albeit rare. Being a good judge of character helps. If he spends more time looking at your body than your eyes, there's a problem.
I can usually tell a lot about people within the first few minutes of talking with them. Body language speaks a lot louder than words and is harder to disguise since nobody is constantly thinking about what they are saying non-verbally. If you know any "nice" guys, like a friend's boyfriend or something. Watch his body language. Then watch the body language of a jerk you know. After a while you'll start to pick up on tell-tale signs of certain characteristics.
There's a lot of other ways to read into people as well. Trust me, it works. I've found it especially helpful for weeding through girls and spotting "fake" people.
2007-09-23 19:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by David W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, older guys go for younger girls because they see them as easy targets (so stay away!!) Also, older guys and jerks tend to be a lot more confident. There's a good chance one of those single guys wanted to dance but was too shy. If you make more guy friends or start talking to more variety of boys, you may be a lot more likely to find a nice guy. But either way, if you are looking for a nice guy; parties are not usually the place to go. Church, youth groups, youth activities at the library, school groups, a job where lotsa other teens work, or maybe even in class are the places to look. Sometimes, no matter how hard you look; patience is the best way to find them. I was 17, quite exasperated from looking, and not expecting it at all when I met my love through a random friend request on Myspace. Now that I've found her, it was well worth the wait; hell, I'd've waited 5 or 10 more years for something so great, I don't think I deserve it yet =P
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2016-05-17 18:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by anthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attractive, you will find that every jerk in town wants to say that they have been with you. That means that you will have many more bad ones to weed through before finding a good one. I can totally relate. I have been there. It gets frustrating. Just chalk each one up to experience. After a while, you will learn how to push certain buttons to find out what is on their minds before you get involved. Just remember that most of them are on their good behavior at first. It takes a little time before they show their true colors, so don't get involved too quickly. I used to just date them, and show no feelings until I knew what they were like. It ticked off the ones that were not really sincere. The others generally stuck it out. I used to love to make the jerks spend plenty of money on me, just to get them back for wasting my time.
2007-09-23 19:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
dear, basically the number of nice people is much much less than the number of nice, pleasant people. so because there re way more stupid losers than decent guys that's why u seem to meet only losers. u just haven't been waiting long enough. remember - it is 10 losers for 1 decent guy, and very often in life u meet a nice guy and think "well, this one is good, but there is this and this and this wrong (because there re no perfect people anyway) so maybe i will wait for another one" but another one never comes. so just wait for the right one, good luck
2007-09-23 19:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe in the Law of Attraction. If you're attracting these types of guys, then at some level you secretly WANT them or act this way yourself.
The best way to be open to great guys is to do self exploration of who you are and make sure all your needs are met before seeking elsewhere.
2007-09-23 19:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jewish FiLiPiNo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kiddo, this is an age long question.
I think we have to have a few bad ones so when the good one comes along we value him just a tad more.
2007-09-23 19:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE U SHOULD REST FOR A WHILE IF THAT DOESN'T WORK IT'S MEANT FOR YOU TO GO THROUGH THOSE THINGS SO WHEN YOU DO GET A GOOD GUY YOU WOULD APPRECIATE HIM THAT MUCH MORE
2007-09-23 19:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by christione21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop looking let guys find you
2007-09-23 18:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by hahaiwon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the right time you find him.be sure
2007-09-23 19:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by asal.s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋