I was with my ex-girlfriend for about 1 1/2 years and everything was perfect. But she ended our relationship saying that I was insecure and she felt smothered. After I thought about it, I realized that I WAS being insecure when I shouldn't have been.
For about 3-4 months we remained very good friends. But as time went on she became increasingly more distant. It made me so sad because she knows that I still love her to death.
I see her often in public, but it got to the point to where she never says hi to me, looks at me, or even acknowledges that I'm around. There is a HUGE list of things that shes done to make me jealous, she has even told me that she has been talking to her ex, and that she was seeing another guy, but I found out that this is NOT TRUE. She's made it very clear and obvious that she wants to make me jealous.
What I want to know is WHY she is trying to make me jealous??? what does this mean??? after all, she is the one who broke up with me and broke my heart.
2007-09-23 18:35:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah I can answer this one.
Because I am doing the EXACT same thing your girl is doing.
The guy I was with screwed up big time.
He hurt me depely and I ended it. But i AM still crazy about him.
So I go to the same places he shops/drinks/worksout/etc.
I look hot and then if i see him act snooty and ignore him or say curt hello/goodbye.
whne he IMs me i tell him about new guys who asked me out.
I want in a sick twisted way for him to come running after me and beg me back and miss me and whatnot.
Thats what she is doing.
IF i did NOT want him back i wouldnt let him se eme looking hot nor would i brag about guys who want me.
2007-09-23 18:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by lUKE13422 1 · 6⤊ 1⤋
You know what, this woman has an ego that she thinks that she can treat anyone like crap. It's obvious that she didn't want a relationship from the beginning because if she did then she would not have did what she did. Bottom line is that she has an ego to make people jealous of her, more importantly, she just has tons of issues that she needs to address before she ends up doing something that she will regret later on down the road. Honestly, stay the hell away from her.
2007-09-23 18:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by jhollarules 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
OK Brother, this is gonna be hard, but, if she broke up with you, and now she doesn't talk to you, you gotta move on.
Let her go out of your life. You are obsessing over a woman from your past, with whom you have no future. That is a recipe for misery, and nothing else.
Take up a new hobby, find a new girl, get a dog, do something... just stop dwelling on the past. She has moved on (which, I acutally think women are better than men at) and now you should too.
Good luck, and remember: things are gonna get better.
2007-10-01 08:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bye for now... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what? She's freakin cruel, immature and mean.
You need to forget about her and move on with your life.
Maybe she's doing these things to make you hate her so she can move on too.
I wouldn't get jealous. That's a stupid emotion and falls into the category of insecure.
Think of it this way, whoever ends up with her is ending up with an ice queen. And that is exactly what you have.
She's not your friend. She's just evil.
2007-09-23 18:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I can answer with a lot of maybes. But I'd rather suggest what you can do to win in this game of love. She broke your heart, so don't bother to think about what she thinks or will think. If she wants to get back to you, make her begged for it. Just treat her as a friend or buddy, that will drive her crazy of not being fancied anymore. Start fishing in other ponds and Good Luck.
2007-09-23 18:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by emilights 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does not mean she is a boitch. She's trying to get you out of her life and you are not taking the hint. You need to move on and let go. Go out with friends and try to meet someone else. Regardless of what some people say you cannot go from be in love with someone to being just friends. That takes lots of time if it ever happens at all. Stay away from her.
2007-09-23 18:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by hoppykit 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants you to believe that she is doing the things she says so that you'll hurry up and move on. Girls don't always try to make guys jealous because they want them. Sometimes, it's just to be mean, just because they can, or because they want the guy to go away. I know it's hard, but it sounds like you really need to try to get over her.
Good Luck!
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2016-04-21 14:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Left her - right me
Now she is trying to make me jealous after I poured my heart out about a week ago but now I realize we just broke up and she has a new boyfriend ok but why you still texting me because she trying to make me jealous but once I seen it I knew I was better than that
2014-02-26 02:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this has something to do with her age & immaturity. I don't know, but some girls are stupid, in the fact that they may not care for you anymore, but it strokes their ego to believe guys are pining for them.
Maybe HER insecurity plays into this also. The best way to handle this is to not react to her attempts to make you jealous, and let it be known that you too, have moved on. Good Luck
2007-09-23 18:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Cynthia 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋