This is really happened to me.Im in love with a girl she loves me alot.Unfortunately she got married(arranged) to another guy.She still loves me.Im very depressed by this.Our past n sweet memories are dwelling in my mind.Im unable to bare this pain.But when i ask her about pain,she says not having like me,she is normal.Im weeping like anything,im unable to control my emotions.How she is doing sex with him, how she feels when he does with her. Then wat is the difference between she n me.How to change my mind from her how to control my thoughts.But if our past comes into my mind i cant stop crying.Need serious answers plzzzz......
2007-09-23 18:34:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best thing. Forget about her. If she's not as miserable as you, I'm sure she wasn't in love with you as deeply as you are with her.
At this stage, you can't change things and she's not coming back to you.
Best to find someone else for your life. Maybe "dry out" first.
2007-09-23 18:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to control feelings of the heart and that's why your emotions are all out of control when you think of the past... you need to embrace the pain you feel, that is one thing that has consistently worked for me with my romantic past and a way to really deal with feeling hurt from the emotional pain... Just embrace it for the torture it is and it will get easier, you can't get over something until you fully go through it and you need to remember that you wont always feel this way... tomorrow the sun will rise again and you might just feel a little better by then...
2007-09-23 18:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 17:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old Hollywood maxim. The best way to out from under an old love is to get on with a new one. Start looking.
2007-09-23 18:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA kiddo! look, enough with this crazy emo self! how do you expect ANY girl to like you when you don't even respect yourself? Girls LOVE confidence! Do yourself a favor and MOVE ON, it's pretty obvious she has! you really need to focus on yourself, forget about ANY girl that's currently on your mind and fix yourself up on the quicks. just relax, I'm sure there's a girl out there for you, it just so happens it's not this one. Remember, RESPECT yourself!
2007-09-23 18:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by b3nzin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she really loves you then she would have ran out and never married. so you two could be together. and or geta divorce. and come back but we both know that aint going to happen. so this is what you need to do. ok. stop crying over her there is someone out there for you. go do something you love to do and try and keep your mind off her. and also try to just write your feelings down and dont read them but just keep writing them ok. and let me know if my advice helped you any. but you do have to get over her because she got over you already we all know it.
2007-09-23 18:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by tommysgurl_4502214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flee!
You should go far away, for your own good. It won't be easy or quick, but you really have to try to move on eventually. I'm sorry!
2007-09-23 18:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by saralizzy1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋