Ok here it is.. I have had a crush on a guy for a while and he liked me too and we started going out.. but he stopped calling me and e-mailing me.. so i thought the relationship was over.. then yesterday i found out my counsin friend has like me for a year and i like him too so i guess you can say we are "going out" but the thing is i never really broke up with my other boyfriend and i like another guy....so would you guys consider tht cheating? P.S- my previous boyfriend was just a summer fling...
2007-09-23 18:31:18 · 13 answers · asked by Pam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well i need to offically breakup with my old bf then
2007-09-23 18:39:04 · update #1
id say no your not
2007-09-23 18:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by cheese_84_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it depends how long it's been since the first boy contacted you? If longer than a week than you are definitely broken up I know I would be with mine if he hasn't contacted me at all during that time. And if he had a summer fling that would just add fat to the fire.
I would say have fun with the new one and enjoy. If you two have been going out for a while and the first one hasn't said or done anything than yeah the relationship is over between the two of you.
2007-09-24 01:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first guy stopped calling you and e-mailing you so I think that would be a pretty good sign that he thinks this relationship has ended. I would go out with your cousin's friend and forget this other guy.
2007-09-24 01:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you thought its over with your bf since he ignored you and didnt say anything to clarify things between you, then NO, you are not cheating but I would rather officially break it off with ur bf and tell him that u like another guy! just to be on the safe side!
2007-09-24 01:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, Because your boyfriend was ignoring you it's safe to assume he doesn't really want a relationship in the first place. If I were you I would enjoy this new boy and be faithful to him. Good Luck, and be safe.
2007-09-24 01:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ryann Y. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you arn't cheating.. ur old boyfriend doesn't call you anymore.. so u have the right to go out with another guy.. but i suggest first u should call ur old bf and ask if its really over, and why hasnt he been calling you?
2007-09-24 01:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not cheating. whatever you had with the previous guy was just that. if he did care he wouldve called. obviously he thinks it was a fling so move on!
2007-09-24 01:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear i understand u.In this cae you go for who really loves you and be there with you in odds also.Then why your ex broken with i mean not in contact with you.Then be sure that if he(ex) comes again in your life again what you do.So think before you act.This another really loves u then go with him.No it is not cheating at all.Good Luck.
2007-09-24 01:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with the old boyfriend going AWOL, I would say you are free to play the field.
2007-09-24 01:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes You Are
2007-09-24 01:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by rpdead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh what a tangled web we weave,
When we first reasoned to deceive.
2007-09-24 01:35:36 · answer #11 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋