Hey girls, im from canada high school, and i really like this coffee girl, but dont know whether she likes me back.
At the start she used to stare at me quite alot, and then when i caught her shed just look away.Now im a local at her coffee shop and always go and get a coffee from her, at the start she used to hesitate when talking to me, and was really quiet. Then outta the blue one day she was all bubbly, like "hey hows it going",and she was really cheerful, then the next day she was back to being quiet.???....anyway, one thing that was really weird, is she sometimes giggles when i put money in her hand?. What i have noticed, is she is happy to talk to me when im by myself, but when im with friends, shes really quiet?, i make her laugh alot though, but the times when she doesnt say much,makes me wonder whether she does it cause shes nervous, or because she doesnt want to?im really shy though!...
2007-09-23 18:31:08 · 5 answers · asked by dinnn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
heres the thing, outta the blue last week, i waved out to this girl, and she gave me a really big smile, then when i approached her for coffee, she was back to being really bubbly( her mate wasnt helping her at the counter so she was freely speaking aswell), and like was asking me questions and stuff(which is quite unusual). Shes got a big break in 3 weeks time, and she goes to me first..."have you got any plans for your break?", i said no, and she also said she hasnt got any too (when i asked her after she asked me).....is she waiting for me to ask her out?, cause the next day she seemed like she was pissed off, and wasnt so bubbly, and didnt make any eye contact at all with me, like shes trying to avoid me?, is she losing hope, or ignoring me now?, its wierd cause the day before she was really happy to see me, and the following days after that she was quite cold towards me, and didnt really try to talk much...why is that girls?...i still catch her looking at me though..
2007-09-23 18:31:18 · update #1
dont wnna lose this oppurtunity, cause i think that she likes me, and want to know of a sweet way to ask her when i see her next....im already regretting not doing anything!and have started to really like her heaps, and feel really bad, if she was wanting me to ask her out....also, how long now before she will get over me?....since i dont get to see her for a week or so now...and im angry at myself!, maybe canada ppl like me are dumb?.....
MAIN QUESTION: I WON'T GET TO SEE THIS GIRL FOR LIKE 2 WEEKS NOW, DO YOU THINK SHE WILL BE OVER ME BY THEN?, IT SUCKS CAUSE I REGRET THIS BIG TIME!
2007-09-23 18:32:39 · update #2
no she wont be over you in 1 week. did she know you were going away? it will give you something to talk about too. maybe you could ask her to have coffee with you....somewhere else lol.
she sounds shy, and is prob as confused as you are.i know from current experience, that this thing we do, responding to each other's moods (good and bad moods, shy&outgoing) can take you both round in circles, as neither of you know where you stand & how the other is feeling. cant help with that, or i wouldnt be in the current situation (i would have said talk to her about it, but that just made things worse for me)
when you get back just tell her you missed seeing her each day & sk her for coffee
2007-09-23 18:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just going to say this one, how I see it...
You bonehead! She was wanting you to ask her out! As soon as you have the chance, you run your ace up there like there is no tomorrow and explain how you really liked her and how you were too shy to ask her out. And for God's sake, ask her out! If you're lucky some kind of magic might happen. But let me say one thing. You cannot go through life not following your heart, you'll regret it in the future. Remember, get up there as soon as you can and go through with it. Even when you're heart starts pounding so loud you can hear it, or when you can barely breath, or when you're standing there shaking uncontrolably. Hope everything works out.
2007-09-23 18:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Psychology Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she's shy! Sometimes she can do it... and sometimes she can't. Being at work can make her grouchy sometimes too. Just see what happens after you go back, and just ask the fool girl out!!
2007-09-23 18:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by saralizzy1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think she will. When she does come back, go get your coffee and then ask her if she wanted to go to a movie or something.
2007-09-23 18:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her if she wants to hang out and try to see if she really does like you, if you're still getting that vibe, just be straight forward with her, and ask her if she likes you. Most girls can seem complicated, but ya gotta love us ;p
2007-09-23 18:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by ━═★Lucky13★═━ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋