How to Find Ms. Right?

Question

This question has been bugging me for quite some time. I'm a single guy and for some reason, I'm having a hard time finding that right lady for me. I mean, I socialize with women and try to get to know them but i cannot find that connection i'm looking for. I'm more attractive to personality and looks is a plus for me. But still, no luck. I'm in college now and i'll be finishing my RN (registered nurse) degree this may. Hope someone can give me insight on my current dilemma.:P Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

IF U HAVEN'T FOUND ANYONE DON'T RUSH BECAUSE GOD HAS SOMEONE SET ASIDE JUST FOR YOU SOMEONE U WILL CONNECT WITH ON EVERY LEVEL MENTALLY,PHYSICALLY,EMOTIONAL ETC. REMEMBER: GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT I HOPE MY TIP WAS HELPFUL AND NON OFFENSIVE

Answer 2

aww, sounds like you're a good guy with a lot to offer. where are you meeting these chicks? at a bar? lol. if so, not a good place for an aspiring nurse to meet any serious or well rounded women (most of the time, not always). why don't you put your feelers out while you're at school? if you notice someone in the hallway that you think may be your type, strike up a conversation or ask to borrow a pencil. even the most innocent or casual encounters can sometimes turn into a long lasting relationship. and, don't forget, 99% of people don't ever find their "soul mate" but they do find someone that makes them happy. so, don't get discouraged if you don't feel butterflies right away. there may not be ms. perfect, but there are probably a handful of ms. pretty damn awesomes.

Answer 3

I know this may sound cliche, but when the right one comes along you both will know it. When I started a new job 2 years ago I was single....recently dumped and just kind of bummed out with things in the relationship department. And there was this guy at work who really attracted my attention. We small talked and to to know one another as co-workers and friends and three weeks after I started, he asked me out and we have been together ever since. My bf and I just clicked.....there was this connection there that was undeniable. Now 2 years later, we are soon to be engaged! My bf had been single for a couple of years before meeting me...he said he was just waiting for the right one to come along..and thankfully it was me. So just have patience and it will happen. And it will happen at the place and the time that you least expect it.
Good Luck and never give up! Have faith!

Answer 4

ok, so i may not be that old, but i have learned a few things about dating aND have tested them and they work. not only with me, but people i know. first, you should make a list of the qualities you want in a partner. then you should try to have those qualities that you seek. Secondly, STOP looking for her! Right now! your have to tell yourself that she is out there, yes, but that you must WAIT for her! this can be really hard, because you can't just say it, you have to Mean it. Then, it may be a day, a week, a month, you have to be patient, but she will come. And if you do meet, don't try to "find" her. just let things go naturally. this is true, I've seen it happen in my own life and my friends, and when they "look" for the guy, the guys that had interest, don't anymore. hope this helps!good luck!

Answer 5

I have been in so many fu@*ed up relationships I can't even begin to explain. Ms right will come along when you least expect it to. When she does, I hope you turn Ms right into Mrs. Right. Be open, honest, and faithful. My girlfriend has put up with a lot of BS from me. I know she must be the future Mrs Fireman. My now girlfriend started as my bestfriend. Now she has been my girlfriend for four years. We have lived together for three years. I love her, and the only reason we are not engaged is that she wants some $3,000 ring. I want to give her the ring she wants but with the perfect diamonds and and platinum in stead of white gold. This will actually be a $9,000 - $11,000 ring. To sum things up. She would be happy with the cheap ring. I want to buy her the expensive one. When you feel like that. That is Mrs. Right!!! Be patient, she will come along

Answer 6

I know this sounds simplistic, but it worked for me when I was thinking of settling down and not "in love." Others have done this as well, so I'm told. Make a list of all the ladies you like and starting at the top ask one to coffee or lunch. If that works out well ask the young lady out on a date.

One on your list will want to date you. Where that goes from there only time will tell.

Answer 7

first of all, location of where your looking is a good start. If your looking in bars, THATS A PROBLEM! If you feel like you are looking in appropriate areas of your standards, I would say that you need to be patient. Continue socializing, dont hold back, you might miss out. You will find someone eventually. Look in places you like to be at, hence the women there will have some things in common with you.

Answer 8

When you are trying really hard to get to know a girl, that's off-putting. It comes off as a little desperate. It's better to do things that interest you, like art classes or joining the outdoors club, and let yourself develop relationships with women gradually. That way you meet someone with similar interests, and don't freak her out by being overly attentive.

Answer 9

You'll probably have many opportunities meeting female nurses when you start working. Just keep trying. Finding a perfect fit is hard. Even after marriage, it's still hard (thus, all the divorces).

Answer 10

be patient. be honest. be strong. be brave.

open your heart and mind. pray and live your life like usual.

love your self, and try to be a sweeter person, take a social club, attend a party, browsing internet, go to the park, gym, swimming pool, bowling, or even hospital!

i met my husband in a hospital, i was doing nothing, not even company my friend or family! i just walking around to cheer up the patient in the hospital, almost every day, and TA DA!!! i met him... after 41 years waiting!

dont be too picky, once you have a special relationship, try to bonding with it, and always keep your honest! be a truthful person, it will be easier for people to love you.

build a good communcation, do not scare them, 1-3 text message is enough for your new friend! call them in lunch time OR dinner time is more than enough, do not make them feel you chase them like a maniac!

be clean, good smell, comb your haid, iron your cloth, and first of all, BE HAPPY!

good luck!

Answer 11

Trust me I know how you feel but have patience and maybe the right girl will come to you. I heard that it's when you least expect it and I hope everyone is right because I'm not girlfriend searching anymore like I did in my past. They can come to me.