That person has been dissing me for a couple of days now, because I've said something that might have hurt his feelings. What shall I do to cope with this?? Should I just leave him alone and try not to make anything better?
2007-09-23 18:17:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF YOU SAID SOMETHING WRONG TO SOMEONE SAY YOUR SORRY DON'T LET IT GO ON TO LONG THE LONGER YOU WAIT THE WORSE IT GETS SO DO IT ASAP GIVE HIM ONE ROSE TO MAKE A PEACE A NICE CARD GOOD LUCK
2007-09-23 18:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, everybody makes mistakes, so don't be too hard with yourself. However, since you have realized you said something WRONG, you should try to make things better. It all depends on how much you treasure and value your relationship/ friendship with him. Some relationships are precious and losing them because of something minor is unwise and unworthy. My suggestion is: try to reach him and sincerely apologize. When you do apologize, focus on the apology instead of finding excuses for the things you said. If you can't reach him, consider sending him a little card with a short note that says "I am sorry." Good luck! :) He might need a short break from you to cool things down a little. But if you value him, you should try again after a while.
2007-09-24 01:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by maryannparker1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize
2007-09-24 01:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a good friend of yours and you wish to continue and maintain this friendship then you might want to keep trying. Even if he's screening your calls and won't pick up the phone, leave messages. Your earnest messages and consistency will show how much you really care.
2007-09-24 01:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by AAA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the person a note, flowers, anything with you excuses and great words about the person.
The person may keep on dissing you but it won't last for ever.. with your efforts you most probably will gain her/his confidence back.
2007-09-24 01:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Azucar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY, PRAY, PRAY.
God said, when you hurt some one feeling and they resist to forgive you, and you can not do something to fix the relationship, Pray!
No thing imposible for God, He will healed your friend feeling, and bring happiness for them, God will cheer them up and make their heart soft like a feather, and its time for you to make a move.
example: today you Pray, tomorrow you pray, until a week, the new week, try to contact him, tell him that you really sorry and say apologize, tell him that you pray for him and hoping God answer your pray by getting his forgiveness. if its nor work, then the trouble is not in your side dear, This guy dont deserve you! thats it!
2007-09-24 01:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by MaDaM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tray saying sorry even if it was their fault to some extent. try to figure out what it was that you said, how it may have hurt them (even if it is not logical that they are hurt) and say sorry for that.
unfortunately hurt feeling are still feelings even if they are not logical or justified.
2007-09-24 01:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. You might want to also start thinking before you say things.
2007-09-24 01:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An apology may be in order. Even if it doesn't work, at least you can say you tried.
2007-09-24 01:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry is a pretty strong word. Especially if you MEAN it. Try it.
2007-09-24 01:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by Nae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋