I'm interested in him?
2007-09-23 18:11:26 · 30 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like him then wait until you are no longer in his class to let him know. Why make it uncomfortable for both of you through the semester if he's not interested. Even if he is interested, most schools have policies and he could lose his job and get a bad reference over it. If you are serious then respect his hard work as a PhD, and wait until a more appropriate time and place.
2007-09-23 18:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Finish the class first. Avoid any possible conflict of interest or even an appearance of a conflict of interest as that may put his job on the line and that is NOT a good way to get his attention.
After you finish the class (good grades will be a good help; he is more likely to remember the outstanding students), then you can contact him to thank him for the class and see how he responds.
Campus policies and professional codes of conduct/ethics and such exist and may or may not be enforced. But professors are sometimes wary of involvement with students as any potential, apparent, or alleged improprieties can ruin their careers. But professors and students are human. Sometimes things work out. Sometimes not. But many a promising career has gone awry because of soured personal relationships between faculty and students.
2007-09-24 01:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by wisdomdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So You Should Tell Your Sir As Soon As Possible.
Because Might Be He Gets Married Or Fall In Love With Any Other Girl.
So Be Fast ............And After All What Your Sir Will Do, He Will Make You Understand, And If He Is Also Interested In You Than No Problem ......
But Keep In Mind That Your Sir Does Not Take Advantage Of Yours..........ok bye have a nice time .....best of luck for ur future.
Regards,
Mufi.
2007-09-24 01:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To avoid awkwardness in the classroom and other students catching on, tell him when your done taking his class, like within the last few days. Or talk to him casually or invite him to things "as a friend" during the semester just to see if this is something you should pursue and if hes even interested. But if I were you I would wait till after the class ends to try anything past a friendship with your professor.
2007-09-24 01:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by ekbuell 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. It's against University regulations and if you do form a relationship it ends up causing all kinds of jealousy and accusations of favoratism. Even if the administration looks the other way, it will affect the way other Profs in the faculty view your Thesis.
Anyway, it's just a warning. I think personally it is immoral for Profs to do it, regardless, concerning general morality, if you are both in love and neither of you are married and it will make you happy, go for it. Tell him at your next thesis meeting if he would like to meet for coffee. If he says no, then you will have to be careful and maybe wait until you have the Phd in hand. I just wanted to warn you that should you have a succesful relationship, there will be repercusions.
2007-09-24 01:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him know while your in his class, if he likes you you might get him in trouble. instead talk to him and find out about him and the places he likes to go. then after you are done with his class (i mean for good not for the day) then maybe you can go to some of the places he does and meet him there. if he is also interested then the rest should come naturally...love is supposed to come that way..
2007-09-24 01:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would wait until you have completed his coursel It is not a good idea to get involved with your prof. What happens if it does not work out? He could fail you just to spite you, or worse yet, blackmail you into staying with him in order to pass. Don't say that it won't happen, because it has happened many times before.
2007-09-24 01:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just as I said to the lady, flash your biggest smile. Practice if necessary. He already knows your name. Away from class of course, stop in during his office hours. Have a good academic question ready, pick the subject he likes best. It works, trust me.
2007-09-24 01:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It would be inappropriate to let him know before the term ends. Be friendly, work hard, and--after finals--ask him if he'd be interested in meeting for coffee.
2007-09-24 01:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by yakngirl 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are 27 and don't know how to flirt with a guy, you are hopeless. What is he teaching? How to flirt with a guy in 10 minutes?
2007-09-24 01:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋