Im not trying to touch or harm them in anyway, but a couple of times I accidently glanced at some girl and she got angry for looking at her, another time I accidently bumped into one and appoligized and she is like "don't go near me your scaring me", another time I was heading a direction that was the same as a girl was going and she was like "why are you following me?" I told her my destination is that direction and shes like "don't hurt me!". I was not glaring at them or too close to them or touching or stalking I was simply acting like any normal person. Is it that I look ugly they are scared of me when Im not doing anything?
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From those incedents Im now afraid to be within a football feilds lenghth from a female because im afraid they will try to accuse me of something.
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And whenever on is nearby I sometimes turn the opposite direction or quickly look away from them.
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2007-09-23 18:00:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im even now afraid to be in public because of this. What is wrong with me?
2007-09-23 18:01:40 · update #1
It usually happens with complete strangers.
2007-09-23 18:05:15 · update #2
Hang on ill post my phot
2007-09-23 18:05:42 · update #3
http://wwww.hotornot.com/p/?action=photos
2007-09-23 18:07:59 · update #4
Body language hmmmmmm.... Can someone tell me what type of body language is considered intimmidating?
2007-09-23 18:09:12 · update #5
i had to lol when i read your question because it seems they are afraid of u.
maybe youre looking at them funny. try smiling or look more relaxed. u must have serial killer written on your face. seriously u must look suspect to them i donno why but cheer up, try looking more pleasant and approachable. look friendlier. some polo sport or curve wouldnt hurt either.
2007-09-23 18:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are walking around feeling fearful, it probably comes out in your facial expression and body language. The girls are picking up on it and becoming fearful themselves.
You need to work on your own self confidence and being comfortable with yourself. There is really nothing wrong with you, except that you think there is something wrong with you. Practice positive thoughts and start telling yourself you are a wonderful person, smart, thoughtful, etc. When a negative thought -- like "there's something wrong with me" -- slips into your head, change it to a positive affirmation.
Everything starts with a thought, and everything can be changed with your thoughts.
2007-09-24 01:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well no one can tell if you are ugly because you dont have a pic. and who cares if you are i mean there is someone who will like you for you.and just be your self. keep telling them im not looking at you or tell them i am looking at you because you are very pretty. and if they say something rude ask them why is it everytime i say hi or i just walk by any girl they are scared of me. just ask a female. i mean put a pic up of you and ask this question ok. ladies only do you think i am ugly? and do i scare you? because people on here are very honest and i would answer you more better if there was a pic and you asked them questions.
2007-09-24 01:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by tommysgurl_4502214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unable to access ur pic, but don't worry about it. if you bump into someone and they give you a look, say excuse me and just keep on going.
build up your confidence. go on line and check out the best way to do this; Cd's etc.
don't focus on what women may think of you, they don't know you, so it's not important what they say to you.
good luck!
2007-09-25 13:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by black cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt worry, things like that happen.. last time i was sitting and waiting for the bus, a man was sitting beside me, i had to look past him to keep checking if the bus was coming.. then suddenly he was like " stop looking at me." jeez its prob their problem.. dnt worry about it.. maybe they just thought that u were trying to do those things.. but everyone knows u dont mean it ;)
2007-09-24 01:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a bad rep? If you do that might be why. Or maybe you just look a bit menacing? If not any of these then maybe its not you but its them?
2007-09-24 01:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by SmilE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't a clue why anyone would be afraid of you unless your body language is intimidating.
2007-09-24 01:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be scarry lookin to some ppl but not all chciks are like that some of us want to meet the guy before we judge them.
2007-09-24 01:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you.
something you might of said before might of made them feel uncomfortable... a joke you said that might not have been funny... I'm not sure.
just be cool.
don't let them get to you.
keep you chin up.
2007-09-24 01:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by darling_chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skippy say post your picture so we can see if you scare us too.
2007-09-24 01:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋