I haven't talked to my ex-boyfriend in 6 mos. I called him tonight for the 1st time to wish him a happy late b-day since I felt awkward about not talking to him for such a long time. I just wonder how could you be so in love & so intimate & then later on, there's no contact whatsoever? & I hear ALL the time how people become best friends with their ex. Most people say, "He's your ex for a REASON." So I called him & wished him a happy b-day to try to see how he was doing, & he made a lame excuse to get off the phone, so I cursed him out because I'm so hurt about how cold he treated me when we were together, & I was so blind I couldn't see his dirt. I cared about him & trusted & confided in him, & I don't know what I did to turn him away. He just up & cheated for no reason. I tried to give him a lot & he never appreciated what I had to offer. I was homeless & he refused to take me in his home. I almost got murdered by a roommate, & he didn't even come to my rescue. I'm about to cry.
2007-09-23 17:46:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CONTINUE TO STAY AWAY, THIS IS ONLY UPSETTING YOU, YOU CAN SEE HIS DIRT NOW!! AND I CAN TELL YOU , YOU DESERVE BETTER!!WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.LET HIM REAP WHAT HE HAS SOWN.YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY GIRL, GIVE YOUR SMILE TO SOMEONE ELSE, A PERSON DESERVING OF IT. BEST WISHES IN THE FUTURE, AND HE IS NOT WORTH YOUR TEARS, SAVE THOSE FOR SOME ONE MORE DESERVING!!!!
2007-09-23 17:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by mother of 4! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, I posted a question about how do I get an ex long distance girlfriend from harassing me the other day. I feel your pain dude, I've been there, alot of us have! Thing you've gotta realise though right now is, it's not the girl its just the emotions, you've associated them to her... it's really not her. Like for instance if you ask a girl "why do you like me" chances are she won't say your eyes, your muscles blah blah, she will say something along the lines of " the way you make me feel" Get my point dude? I think you may need to move onto the next chapter in your life, turn the next page and see what adventure lies ahead. It's hard I know, but we love and live. Goodluck buddy.
2016-04-05 22:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Sure there was good times and intimacy. But where does it say you must continue contact?
If the person affects you in a way that brings out the best in you, then yes. If it's a mutual feeling to continue contact on a different level that is fine. If he/she has a negative affect on you as a person, or in your life, then it is best to move on and no reason to have contact.
Look to those who bring out the best in you, or if you see that you like how you are with certain people who make you feel good.
I think the time apart and no contact from him, made you forget what an a*shole he is.
Don't cry...be around those who make you feel better.
2007-09-23 17:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by NAB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I still love my ex and always will. But I prefer not to have contact with her. We have a child together so I do have to have some contact though, but I try to keep it to a minimum. Why? Probably because I still love her but can never forgive her for dishonoring me and I'm afraid that if I allow myself to get close to her again I might change my mind about taking her back. Which I do not want. So it's easier to keep myself distanced.
2007-09-23 17:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by David W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats Crude.
I Broked Up To My Ex Girl friend 1 Year Ago.
& We Haven't talked Since we Broke up.
I Think That I was Wrong at that time.But It is Useless to Cry Over Spilt Milk!!!
2007-09-23 17:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
People are right. He's your ex for a reason. Don't waste any more time on this guy. He doesn't feel the same way about you. He cheated on you. Why even wish him a happy birthday? Move on and forget that jerk.
2007-09-23 17:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by johnstonluv 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really hurts when people are not as good as we think they are.
I have been hurt by people I once loved and it is very hard to get over.
I am so sorry he treated you this way. He should have been gracious when you called to wish him a happy birthday.
It is hard isn't it?
2007-09-23 17:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose his phone number... Forget about him... I know its easier said than done, but hun, why make your life miserable by wasting your breath and tears on this person?
Years from now this person will be nothing more than a distant memory and you'll ask yourself 'what the hell was I thinking".....
2007-09-23 18:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really had no obligation to talk to you and its nice you called him and all but he's moved on and most likely erased you from his memory. I know it hurts but sometimes you have to. I was with this girl for about 3 years and we almost got married until things went sour and we broke up and I haven't talked to her ever since. It just feels awkward to be just friends with someone you shared everything with but it happens.
2007-09-23 17:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
go ahead and cry, you may cry over and over. HE not YOU has suffered a GREAT loss, and its sad cuz he doesn't know it. God has blessed you. He(GOD) has removed this man from your life. In the long run you will look back and wonder what the heck did you ever see in him.GOOD LUCK GIRL!
2007-09-23 17:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by happinessy2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋